Jamie & Nikki Separation: "Swirling Gone Wrong" & Marriage Scare Tactics Used On Black Women

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  • Published on Aug 22, 2019
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  • Chrissie
    Chrissie  23 days ago +1024

    Correction: black women outnumber black men. I forgot to say that they also marry/date out at almost 3 times the rate we do. The black community doesn’t care about light skinned women replacing you, its ONLY used as a scare tactic to stop you from swirling. Don’t let black community fearmongering force you out of exercising your options and/or getting married. It’s a scam! Vet, weigh out your pros/cons with every decision and do the best for YOU.
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    • Cordero Core
      Cordero Core 16 days ago +1

      @Ewarton Charlton Exactly 💯 facts that part ☝🏾

    • Elizabeth Clarke
      Elizabeth Clarke 20 days ago +2

      Well if u feel as though LS women are replacing DS women why are u encouraging DSW to swirl then ?ain’t that creating LS biracial people ? Aren’t DSW part of the black community?

    • D W
      D W 20 days ago

      @Afro - I was stating a fact, I could care less who you date! STATING FACT and THAT FACT IS, WOMEN OUT NUMBER MEN AS A HUMAN SPECIES - Period! If you want to go across the world for a man, or cross cultures, that is on you, I wasn't questioning that nor do I care. What I stated is beyond race.

    • D W
      D W 20 days ago

      Nothing strange about it.

    • Destined027
      Destined027 20 days ago

      Well said Chrissie! No matter what race, we need to vet vet vet! Pick the BEST option for you.

  • Yoyo Dam
    Yoyo Dam 16 hours ago

    You only hear this discussion in Afro-American American women. you women are damaged

  • Anyotta Roberts
    Anyotta Roberts Day ago

    You are getting married? Aw congratulations 😍❤

  • strawberriesncandii

    I never got the sense that they were fetishizing each for their skin color. However, before she married him and had kids she was modeling and doing things for herself. Once she got married she stopped modeling and doing the things that made her happy before. No matter who you are or who you marry make sure you still retain your life and happiness.

  • Bindi J. Marc
    Bindi J. Marc 4 days ago

    I dont usually agree with Chrissie's ideology. This, however, was the absolute honest truth.

  • Taylor
    Taylor 4 days ago

    What's nikki chanel?

  • Rahr
    Rahr 5 days ago

    In all species... Crosses between varieties have a highest chances of surviving and thriving.. Only humans resist it...even when there is not a good reason for it!

  • Original 4Dimples
    Original 4Dimples 8 days ago

    Amen sister!!!

  • Cleveland we the best

    Fuckin sell out

  • The Sounds of the Suburbs

    Statistically, interracial marriages are more likely to fail that intraracial.

  • Hannah H.
    Hannah H. 10 days ago

    Are they actually divorcing, or are they just separating? One would think that a divorce is around the corner simply because they are separating, but that’s an assumption if they did not actually say that they are going to divorce. Some couples find that they actually want to stay together after they’ve separated.

  • Lana Frankly
    Lana Frankly 11 days ago

    Major part of they're (model sisters) beauty is the deep,rich, dark nilotic complexion, so if they mix it out they kids will just be average.

  • Hannah B
    Hannah B 12 days ago

    I personally see the the divorce rates of any demographic as society gone wrong. God did say this world would be coming to any end so it is not surprising. I do hope they get back together again because they did make a promise before God and they will have to give an account.

  • zeal tracey
    zeal tracey 12 days ago

    So True and sometimes its best to be alone. Im working on that but the process is worth it

  • SammiM79
    SammiM79 13 days ago +1

    They're separated not divorced so I'll pray for their reconciliation. So sad.

  • Jay P
    Jay P 13 days ago +1

    Y’all pro interracial breeding but hate light skin women lmao dumb ass

    • Jay P
      Jay P 5 days ago

      Sweet & Love y’all wanna make excuses for y’all low self esteem and light skin mixed babies fever. I don’t understand how y’all talk so much about light skin women at the same time you promote their existence. Dark skin women are out here creating more light skin women more than light skin women.

    • Jay P
      Jay P 5 days ago

      Hava the Sun a Neanderthal could never be best for black women

    • Hava the Sun
      Hava the Sun 5 days ago +1

      She was just saying to date what's best for you not based on race!

    • Sweet & Love
      Sweet & Love 6 days ago +2

      And y'all are pro black, but hate dark skinned women, lol dumb ass

  • James Franklin
    James Franklin 13 days ago

    Well she's a very very beautiful model and models should just focus on there career's when you retire from modeling you retire for ever you don't go back to the gutter when you have found love your obligation is to be with your husband and visceral and keep people out of your marriage and business focusing on God and family only trust of the heart is very important !!

    • James Franklin
      James Franklin 13 days ago

      I think because of the children they will and should get back together and leave the outside garbage out of there life's

  • Praise Osas
    Praise Osas 14 days ago

    O-MA-GOSH! I thought they would last! I haven’t tuned into them in forever and never knew that the next time I tuned in, I wouldn’t be able to! 😧
    I honestly never felt like Jamie was truly attracted to Nikki to be honest. Their body language was awkward and off. I mean, they had chemistry in the early days but that kind of fizzled out. Also...I noticed that Nikki was always wearing make up around him which showed me that she was insecure. I swear I heard her say that Jamie likes her better that way.
    I don’t think white and black people should be together and don’t believe it works due to cultural and historical clashes.
    Then I just don’t agree with vlogging about your personal life or relationships for the world to see. Those things should be intimate and private. This whole vlog culture adds another layer of pressure to the relationship.
    I don’t know. Just my thoughts.. 🤔

    • Praise Osas
      Praise Osas 14 days ago

      People need to stop living vicariously through others!

  • pricilla miza
    pricilla miza 15 days ago +3

    I wiill never leave my white man for black men I rather get myself a new white boy if I have to

  • briantrek
    briantrek 15 days ago

    interracial relationships are not magical happily ever afters....they have the same problems

  • Lady D
    Lady D 15 days ago +1

    Who cares you you are married too. I idolize no couple except my parents of 63 years who obviously knows what it takes to be married. I have been married for 21 years. They fail because God is not the head of the marriage. If God is not the center you will not last. I married my spouse after 6 months and the rest is history.

  • sylvia williams
    sylvia williams 15 days ago

    "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

  • Fatou Tounkara
    Fatou Tounkara 16 days ago +1

    Lesbians dont have to deal with all these white, orange, yellow, black, pink, brown, beige men issues.

    • J Williams
      J Williams 13 days ago

      Fatou Tounkara You can’t be serious? Lesbians are basically black men with vag!

  • Fatou Tounkara
    Fatou Tounkara 16 days ago

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  • Anonymous Person
    Anonymous Person 16 days ago +1

    Why is it that when a relationship goes south, people automatically blame the man? Let's check our cognitive biases, ladies.
    BTW Jamie and Nikki did not say they were getting a divorce, they said they are separating. There's still a possibility that they could reconcile their differences. I really hope so, but I guess we'll just have to wait and see. Prayers going up for this beautiful couple!

  • Janet Jones
    Janet Jones 16 days ago

    Y'all stop putting your energy into social media BS! In the next couple of months they will be back together again. It appears the new thing is to get people "talking" to get their numbers up on their channel..... I unsubscribed because I was tired of seeing Nikki acting like a white woman in a black body. To me she never really embraced her culture, and yet the majority of her subscribers are African women and black American women...

  • Eve Mason
    Eve Mason 16 days ago

    Just to quickly add to my previous comment...if the black community is replacing dark skinned women with light skinned women, which it does seem to be doing, only prayer can help!! Just kidding! The same thing applies: if black people really care, they need to take the responsibility to completely change the culture with which they raise their children so that future generations of black people will be less colorist.

  • Aliana Wood
    Aliana Wood 16 days ago +1

    The 50 percent of marriages end in divorce thing is a bit misleading in how people think about it. Understand, that stat includes people on their 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and even 7th marriages (Larry King). When you look at just 1st marriages, the stat is lower.

  • Eve Mason
    Eve Mason 16 days ago

    On one hand, I think that Jamie has been such an amazing husband and ideal father. He has always been so positive, supportive and upbeat. At least that is how his TheXvid videos showed him. In my opinion, white men generally have an advantage over black men because of the general differences in the separate cultures. Black people and white people generally raise their children differently and it shows in how the men turn out. The differences in upbringing affect the outcomes. White men are seen as being more understanding, sensitive, considerate, cultured, intelligent etc. etc. Remember, I'm talking generally! White men and black men are known to treat women comparatively differently (grammar?). I think it's crucial that we recognise this and re-examine the way that we raise our boys (and girls) in the black community. We need to make a concerted effort to raise black boys to be much more sensitive and more emotionally intelligent. They need to catch up to where white men are in order to be more ideal / suitable mates. So, on the other hand, I feel sympathy for black men and I think that we should campaign to make cultural changes and support black men to make those changes. We should see it as a matter of urgency that not another generation of black boys should grow up the same way again. It's our community so it should be our responsibility to help breed out the qualities that hinder black relationships.

  • Fionna
    Fionna 16 days ago

    Frankly real hypergamy is always looking toward bigger and better, even if you're married.
    It's a common trope that rich women divorce often and get with someone richer. So what's the problem? 💁🤣

  • Bridgette Walker
    Bridgette Walker 16 days ago

    Marriage is not bad ,it’s the people in the marriage that can make that marriage bad

  • IgnoranceIsBliss
    IgnoranceIsBliss 16 days ago +1

    Some Black women are simply more sexually attracted to White men than Black men. Sure, there may be White Supremacist/Racist programming involved (or childhood and adult trauma from Black men, something many never consider). Honestly, it would be easier for me, if I was more attracted to Black men but I'm just not. I can't stand to think about them in a sexual way, even though I've been involved with them (I know this is very hard for Black women who are very attracted to Black men, to fathom). I can't force myself to have a strong sexual attraction to Black men (anymore than Black women who are strongly sexually attracted to Black men can force themselves to be attracted to White men). I'm not implying Black men are inferior to White men or that all Black men are bad. That's racist and a huge LIE. The tastes of one individual has nothing to do with ALL Black men's value and it would be narcissistic to think otherwise. There are hot Black men just like there are hot White men. I'm just more mentally attracted to White male sex appeal than Black male sex appeal. No amount of shaming by the Black community, is going to stop people from being attracted to what they're attracted to, regardless as to the underlying reasons for that attraction. There are plenty Blacks procreating with Blacks. Black people won't be disappearing anytime soon (Extinction Level Event not withstanding).

  • Stephanie Cross
    Stephanie Cross 16 days ago +1

    I just love seeing black women happy, loved, spoiled and taken care of.

  • Latifahazel
    Latifahazel 16 days ago +1

    6:27 So true Chrissie. Log into Lipstick Alley any day of the week, and Black woman are ROOTING and MOCKING, other Black woman who break up with White men. It’s like they are just hoping for all BWWM relationships to fail to prove a point.

  • Lisa Generette
    Lisa Generette 16 days ago

    If you have more than the man, marriage can too financially risky (because of the possibility of divorce). Marriage is still important for religious and cultural reasons, but not for financial reasons, for the person with more $$.

  • Len Jon
    Len Jon 16 days ago

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • magicsinglez
    magicsinglez 16 days ago

    Why did they break up? If this were Hollywood, the story would be, the guy cheated, strangely, to allow the guy/guys to save face.

  • Nylotis Slaughter
    Nylotis Slaughter 16 days ago

    I hope this is not true about Jamie and Nikki I love their TheXvid channel I have always told them they are the sweetest couple this will be so sad if this is true just saying

  • Person A
    Person A 17 days ago

    11:19 okay but she looks like a Barbie doll!?!?! 🤯😍

  • denise3676
    denise3676 17 days ago

    Any news from Joann and the man?

  • Jolearra Tshiteya
    Jolearra Tshiteya 17 days ago

    Period.

  • Karon G
    Karon G 17 days ago

    Doubt if swirling is the issue.

  • DukeCHUBBYDun
    DukeCHUBBYDun 17 days ago +1

    It's f-ed up to get married for the sake of getting money from the situation should you get divorced. Build your own career. Make your own money. Be secure enough in yourself and your skills and abilities to sustain yourself.

  • DukeCHUBBYDun
    DukeCHUBBYDun 17 days ago +1

    Half of marriages end in divorce, and everyone's so quick to throw that stat around as a reason not to marry. Noone ever has the stats of how many of these marriages shouldn't have happened in the first place. No one every has the stats for how many of these marriages had parties who were unwilling to be mature enough to do what's required of them to make a marriage work. I wonder what the stats would be if people dated themselves first, established their core values, used those values to be discerning in who they decide to court and marry, and understand that there's no room for selfishness in marriage. Not saying it would be 100% success, but based off of the way people are socially these days, I wouldn't be surprised if that's the root of a good portion of the 50% divorce stat...just sayin...

  • ayitah69
    ayitah69 17 days ago

    I'm loving your content and delivery. I'm glad u mentioned no matter what the men's race a man is a man. I keep trying to tell my mother this when she insists I should cross to the white side. If I meet a white or any other race man and there's mutual attraction then cool. But I'm not going to seek out a white man thinking they're any better than any other man. I need to show my mom your channel lol.

  • Princess of the Lake
    Princess of the Lake 17 days ago

    We should just be w good people regardless of color or status. Money can come and go but a man's integrity is always there.

  • TheVoice Of A Young BlackMan

    U bitches deserve to continue to be killed by white men....

  • Tom Witherow
    Tom Witherow 18 days ago

    My opinion is I think Jamie messed up I also think he is controlling Nicki put up with it for so long and that was it just my opinion I wish she would come out and say why

  • Kendra Azevedo
    Kendra Azevedo 18 days ago

    Don't see any other race having issues with being with their own! Why such an emphasise on us? Wonder!

  • Foxy Trini Caramel
    Foxy Trini Caramel 18 days ago

    I hope they work it out I liked them together.

  • T K
    T K 18 days ago

    I hope they can find a happy medium for the kids.

  • Hershekyss
    Hershekyss 18 days ago

    I am in an interracial marriage that has lasted 10 years married and 13 years together. Not every relationship is all flowers and sunshine. I am my husband's 3rd wife and he is my 1st husband. While we would like to believe that love will last forever, sometimes it's more than that. We can have faith in our marriage and still be us. Your mate is supposed to be your best friend. You should know them better than they know themselves. so yes I have been through hell and high water with him. That's not to say that I don't like black men. On the contrary. I was always the nerdy quirky black girl that they can't wrap their head around. When you go into a marriage, you are to be blinded by color and treat whomever like they need to be treated. Just in case you need someone to look up to, I am here.

  • Moore Holistic
    Moore Holistic 18 days ago +4

    No white/pale or light skinned woman can hold a candle to Nikki and Duckie...awesome...hands down.

  • GraceFaith Janet
    GraceFaith Janet 18 days ago

    Yet many IR relationships and same colour relationships have lasted the test of time

  • Ella Boompje
    Ella Boompje 18 days ago

    Welll than europe have a different agenda!!!!! The interracial relationships are the standerd here!!!! Black love TABOE!!! They aspect that if you are not with a white person ,you are going to end up a single mother!!! Soo i don't now about america!!!! But blacl love is becoming very rare in Europe!! Sooo yes i stand fot black love all day every day!!!!

  • Richard
    Richard 19 days ago

    Black women of this channel. Just marry your white kangs and go prosper. I just hope your desperation and clear disdain for black men doesn't come back to bite you further down the line in your life. Peace

  • Lloyd O.
    Lloyd O. 19 days ago

    BLACK MEN FOR THE WIN!!

  • Glen Coco
    Glen Coco 19 days ago

    The divorce rate in Australia is 43% ... sounds pretty darn high. Them separating doesn't seem like anything out of the ordinary when you see it like that

  • Felicia Smith
    Felicia Smith 19 days ago

    I feel like we're in the same room together. I am totally engaged.

  • b girl
    b girl 19 days ago

    So true we should put up with any nonsense from any race man but no race of man is perfect everything you brought up in this video is so on point.