Black Men Reflect On Fatherhood

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  • Published on Jun 16, 2019
  • "Your dad's a person, your dad's human, people make mistakes."
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Comments • 317

  • Alee
    Alee 25 days ago

    I’m glad I have a great father! My hero! Honestly I’m the luckiest person in the world. I’m so grateful.

  • Kivaughn Williams
    Kivaughn Williams Month ago

    1:21 the Ten Commandments my good sir

  • Sian Jones
    Sian Jones 2 months ago

    I don't agree with the idea that praising your mother on father's day is like straight people asking for straight pride. If your father was absent and she was the single mother and the only one who raised you then she did the work of both parents and deserves to be celebrated on both days.

  • Skeletor
    Skeletor 2 months ago

    Maybe if smart black fathers would stop blasting HipHop in their car while their children are seated inside, their kids would have higher IQ and do better later in school.

  • COLLECTOR30
    COLLECTOR30 2 months ago

    Liberals really do hate black people. They have to put black dads because most of them leave their child? That’s messed up 🔻

  • Trinity G
    Trinity G 2 months ago

    Thank u for this video buzzfeed. This was really nice😁

  • Space Jew
    Space Jew 2 months ago

    Why do they all have to be black? Why can't it just be fathers instead of black fathers?

  • Hello There
    Hello There 2 months ago +1

    HOW WERE YOU ABLE TO FIND SO MANY?????

  • Francois Douglas
    Francois Douglas 2 months ago

    Cool his name is St. Juste

  • Djobo Kuwali
    Djobo Kuwali 2 months ago

    Like y'all gonna isolate "black men" in its own video and then bring in some half black hawaiin shirt dude and a gay bowler.

  • Andrea Lacou
    Andrea Lacou 2 months ago

    I miss father day 'cause my dad pass away two years agos

  • Logan K
    Logan K 2 months ago +1

    Kinda sad this got like no views

  • vanessa calle
    vanessa calle 2 months ago

    As someone who lost their dad to cancer as a teen you don’t know how important your parents are till they’re gone

  • Zach Lane
    Zach Lane 2 months ago

    Nobody:
    Black people reflecting on Fatherhood:

    • Zach Lane
      Zach Lane 2 months ago

      1999 that’s the joke bud, they say nothing because they have nothing to say about it.

    • 1999
      1999 2 months ago

      You’re just factually incorrect. Black men tend to grow up without fathers in the United States. That’s a fact. I don’t get why you’re crying.

  • The Josh O Show
    The Josh O Show 2 months ago +24

    Wishing whoever is reading this an amazing day and week. Be well, be blessed, and stay in touch ❤️
    -Josh Otusanya

  • KeyaVlogs
    KeyaVlogs 2 months ago +1

    So, guys whats next! Korean Dads reflect on fatherhood!

  • Boss Lax316
    Boss Lax316 2 months ago

    What are you inferring Buzfeed🤔

  • Fortnite Official new
    Fortnite Official new 2 months ago

    Why black men why not any race Asian men white men hispanic men??

  • SS Robs
    SS Robs 2 months ago

    *Sigh* Set aside skin color shouldnt even really be a factor here at all..Couldn't just be a decent well meaning video, huh? Had to fit the political ideologies in there somewhere, huh? Guys, racism exists but what keeps alot of black fathers away from their children are bad decisions they made. We can continue to work on the racism part of that equation as long as needed but real change won't happen until personal responsibility becomes a more common thing. What else that doesn't help that to happen is teaching children the racism boogie man is always out to get them and so they give up and make those bad decisions. Staaap.

  • Sydney Springer
    Sydney Springer 2 months ago

    one time i was watching tv and and i wanted to play with my dad but he was washing dishes so i got mad and fell asleep with one sock on and with my bottle in the crack of the couch.

  • Hope Sorrowgrave, The Outcast

    Trump: "As far as Buzzfeed, which is a failing pile of garbage, writing it, I think they're going to suffer the consequences. They already are."

  • Kailee Cupcake19
    Kailee Cupcake19 2 months ago

    And people wonder why there are so many stereotypes... Smdh

  • Christian Strahley
    Christian Strahley 2 months ago +3

    Why does race have to be brought into everything? 😂

  • The last one
    The last one 3 months ago +1

    Racism

  • Denisha Cook
    Denisha Cook 3 months ago

    I’ve never met my dad. Mostly because after I was born he was in prison states away for a very long time. After he got out tho the last call I got from him was when I was 8 and he told me him and my mom wouldn’t be together anymore. I didn’t get a message a call or anything again until I was 18 and he found me on Facebook. Do I hate him? No. I did but it’s just hurting me. And idk what he’s got going on to stop him for being a good dad to his first six kids. But I see he’s trying with his last two and as long as they’re happy I’m happy. I don’t think kfnhim first when I think of Father’s Day and I think that’s my right tho

  • s. johnson
    s. johnson 3 months ago +1

    Where did Buzzfeed find black men that admit they fathered a child, let alone raise them or pay child support.

  • Joe T
    Joe T 3 months ago +1

    What's with the identity politics, why do you have to have to bring their skin colour into it?

  • Zander VH
    Zander VH 3 months ago

    Please do Americans & danish people swap snacks... pleeeaaaase

  • Shane Flett
    Shane Flett 3 months ago

    This feels incredibly..

  • I love J hope
    I love J hope 3 months ago

    Please more Inga videos

  • Elijah Buckner
    Elijah Buckner 3 months ago

    Why do I feel like this video is targeted for the black stereotype of black dads leaving that's wack

  • Alex
    Alex 3 months ago +1

    Oh..since when are lower class black men fathers?

    • yo! its Tony Tone!
      yo! its Tony Tone! 2 months ago

      @Alex our energy towards you is nothing more then a reflection of how you treated us. We treat u how u always treated us you racist ass

    • Alex
      Alex 2 months ago

      @yo! its Tony Tone! since when are black people not racist?

    • yo! its Tony Tone!
      yo! its Tony Tone! 2 months ago

      Since when are white people not racist?

  • -J0nul-
    -J0nul- 3 months ago +3

    I genuinely can't wait to take my child to McDonald's for a happy meal. Too bad that's not gonna happen for another 15 to never years

  • LambertGames
    LambertGames 3 months ago +1

    Why 'black men'??

    • yo! its Tony Tone!
      yo! its Tony Tone! Month ago

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss actually it's not. Just because the father isn't living with them doesn't mean they're not in their kids lives. And let's keep it real. It's a problem period in America. White men can be deadbeats too. But like so many other negative stereotypes the black male is made the face of it.

    • WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss
      WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss Month ago

      @yo! its Tony Tone! really because the 65% of black families without a father says otherwise and I actually think it's even more.

    • yo! its Tony Tone!
      yo! its Tony Tone! 2 months ago

      @COLLECTOR30 first off most black fathers do stay around and the title is a description of the men in the video you fucken racist

    • COLLECTOR30
      COLLECTOR30 2 months ago

      yo! its Tony Tone! Because most black fathers don’t stay around? Also why tf would they put black in the title to prove some point. It totally back fired

    • yo! its Tony Tone!
      yo! its Tony Tone! 2 months ago

      Why not?

  • Victor Quiniones
    Victor Quiniones 3 months ago +1

    I'm an Asian Dad, and I can relate. Cheers for this.

  • Mors Domine
    Mors Domine 3 months ago +4

    To all of those upset that this is a video about black dads, why did you even click on it if it bothers you that much? This is a positive message about black dads and is important to people. The video is not meant for you so keep moving to the next 🙄

    • Jasmine Gales
      Jasmine Gales 2 months ago +1

      Aliah C. I was thinking the same thing

  • SAMANTHA RATCLIFF
    SAMANTHA RATCLIFF 3 months ago +2

    I enjoyed the video, but I honestly wanted the black dads from the barbecue video on here. They were amazing, we need more of them!
    And for those hating on this being a Black dad video, why not? Why shouldn’t we celebrate black dads? I’m white, and when you see any hallmark advert or similar, they’re usually white dads in the advert. Thank you buzzfeed for being more inclusive and showing amazing black dads and talking about fatherhood. Without positive role models- for everyone- how are we going to better ourselves?

  • Um Soviet
    Um Soviet 3 months ago

    Black transgender gay queer liquid talks about being gay and transgender- buzzfeed

  • Clorox Bleach
    Clorox Bleach 3 months ago +1

    a little racist but ok.

  • Holt 0216
    Holt 0216 3 months ago

    Couldn’t be “men”......
    no we have to reverse discriminate. Because that’s what we do in 2019

  • Super Cam
    Super Cam 3 months ago +2

    Why just black men!?!?

    • yo! its Tony Tone!
      yo! its Tony Tone! 2 months ago

      Why not? Why can't black men have a video to ourselves? Stop bitching

    • Jasmine Gales
      Jasmine Gales 2 months ago

      Just watch and listen. Enjoy❤️

    • Super Cam
      Super Cam 2 months ago

      Patriotic Eagle complaining against their existence!?

    • Patriotic Eagle
      Patriotic Eagle 2 months ago

      Stop complaining about their existence

  • SAFYE
    SAFYE 3 months ago +6

    Here’s an idea:
    Men Reflect on Fatherhood

  • Jayden Nguyen
    Jayden Nguyen 3 months ago

    Do an Unvaccinated adults reflect on their childhood next! Oh wait you can’t

  • Logan Ogletree
    Logan Ogletree 3 months ago +1

    What father...

  • leozzzomnom
    leozzzomnom 3 months ago

    It’s not being black that causes these social problems, it’s being poor and people sometimes don’t have a choice to be in a better life situation

    • Stanley Scalf
      Stanley Scalf 2 months ago

      @taf the fact that the single parent rate is so high. I said why. the value of the father in the home has become culturally devalued. also the governmental benefit incentive for the father to not be in the home. this doesn't just apply to low income black house hold it's other races too just to a lesser degree. I hate dividing things by race but this instance it is affecting blacks in GENERAL more. I've some first hand experience with this, although my personal experience i don't usually bring up because that is anecdotal compared to nation wide statistics. it's economic slavery if it is anything. the Dems take care of you and you vote Dem. It's been going on for the last 40 decades and it's just getting worse.

    • taf
      taf 2 months ago

      Stanley Scalf how is it cultural, what evidence are you basing it on? Genuine question

    • Stanley Scalf
      Stanley Scalf 3 months ago

      if it was STRICTLY a economic issue then the single mother household rate across all races wouldn't vary as much. It's not a racial inferiority problem, so don't think i'm implying that, it's a cultural one if it's anything.

  • JaPowey
    JaPowey 3 months ago +3

    The premise of this video is racist

    • JaPowey
      JaPowey 2 months ago

      yo! its Tony Tone! So they got black people talking about fatherhood when there is a very common stereotype about black people and their fathers not being there when they are kids. How is that not even a little bit racist

    • yo! its Tony Tone!
      yo! its Tony Tone! 2 months ago

      It's not

  • Living Life with Momma Wendy Waeghe

    Hawaiian shirt dad is yummy, I bet he makes beautiful babies.

  • safa hassan
    safa hassan 3 months ago +2

    Why can’t the title start with “men”? Shame on you

    • DJ DNA
      DJ DNA 2 months ago +1

      It’s to reverse racism because people always talk about how black kids have no dads so this proves them wrong

  • Yung Thug
    Yung Thug 3 months ago +4

    I thought Father’s Day is about all dads

  • Maya_27
    Maya_27 3 months ago

    At 4:30 did anyone else think his wife was 7

  • SanPedro Cousins
    SanPedro Cousins 3 months ago +3

    The title is racist

  • Idek Where I am
    Idek Where I am 3 months ago +49

    Nobody:

    Buzzfeed: BLACK men answer questions about fatherhood

    • Mrcookie T
      Mrcookie T 2 months ago +1

      DJ DNA also a video with a few black fathers doesn’t prove a point referring to hundreds of thousands of people across the country wrong. A few people doesn’t disprove a pattern amongst thousands.

    • Idek Where I am
      Idek Where I am 2 months ago

      Mrcookie T where’d you get that info? Like what web/source?

  • E slater
    E slater 3 months ago +1

    Today is FATHER’S DAY it is meant to honor ALL fathers not just BLACK fathers, I understands where Buzzfeed was coming from but, honestly why couldn’t they have made it ALL Fathers yes some black fathers are absent from their children’s lives but some people of all races are missing from their children’s lives! Completely INAPPROPRIATE.

  • Uso_685 Kefe
    Uso_685 Kefe 3 months ago +13

    John has some beautiful eyes! ☝🏽💗

  • August Vhs
    August Vhs 3 months ago +1

    I can’t lie this racist as hell

  • Katrina g
    Katrina g 3 months ago +11

    Some people are getting the wrong idea they're not doing black men to highlight absent black fathers in a bad way. Sadly absent fathers are something that has happened a lot in the poc community but they're talking about their experiences and what having an absent dad has taught them also they're showing that this generation of black fathers can be better than the last because they're there for their kids and have learned what parenting skills should be improved

    • Azileon munoz
      Azileon munoz 3 months ago

      Still kinda odd for it to be race specific for no real reason then right.

  • Get_Hard
    Get_Hard 3 months ago

    A Black Father?
    Never heard of it

  • 🔴Warped🔴
    🔴Warped🔴 3 months ago +1

    Loneliest holiday...😬

  • Luke_
    Luke_ 3 months ago

    What’s the most confusing holiday in the hood


    Fathers Day