It's Time To Move On...

  • Published on Oct 8, 2019
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  • Izabel _123
    Izabel _123 8 hours ago +1

    Grayson, Ethan you need to understand that your happiness and being there for your family is more important then making a video to make us happy. If you don't don't want to or if you can't because you don't feel like postong a video it doesn't matter, what makes us happy is you being happy in real life and not in a video. So please for your mental health don't do what you don't want to do. You will make me more happy and millions of others if you are truly happy.

  • Maria Radovic
    Maria Radovic 11 hours ago

    If you are watching this without tears in your eyes, you are not human, go get a doctor

  • Courtney Higdon
    Courtney Higdon 14 hours ago

    my heart breaks for you both. i went through something similar in 2019 as well. my mom was my VERY best friend & meant the world for me. my mom was sick with cancer for 2 years as well before she ultimately lost her battle in february. i remember hearing talk of your fathers passing & i felt scared. the numb feeling is something i still feel to this day. i was 16 when my mom passed on. it is EXTREMELY difficult to be SO young and to lose a parent. especially when you’re caught up in a job. the chances of you seeing this comment is near to impossible. i can only hope you see this. you’re not alone. your feelings are valid. i’m so glad you posted this & im so glad you’re taking the time you both needed & deserve.

  • Nadia Abdul Kader
    Nadia Abdul Kader 16 hours ago

    I wish i could like this video multiple times

  • Reema Ibra
    Reema Ibra 20 hours ago +1

    Oh my god ! You are the sweetest people ever. Listen ! I love you guys I truly do and all I really care about that you are happy and healthy, nothing else matter to me , I know and I respect that you have your own life and I don’t want to see you under pressure to make a videos for us < actually that will make me extremely upset ! (The fact that every TheXvidr has to upload a video in specific time this not fair at all ) you can make a video whenever you like share anything you want to say anytime you want to. I love you guys and I don’t want to see people that I love going through things like this. please live your life the way that you want ,accomplish your goals , have fun I will always support you ♥️ . I’m so sorry that you had to get through this . And for your fans that kind of crazy fans they can follow you on instagram or snap or whatever < just don’t worry about it 😂💕💕 I’m so glad that you opened up and talked about it and explained how you feel about that ♥️👍

    • Reema Ibra
      Reema Ibra 20 hours ago +1

      I appreciate everything that you’ve done so far 💕👍 you the best

  • bones
    bones 23 hours ago

    They probably should’ve blurred license plates, right?

  • alisha genevieve
    alisha genevieve 23 hours ago

    they deserve the world, i don’t want them to be unhappy when they post youtube videos. i want them to be happy and enjoy what they are doing, real dolan twin fans will not care about the twins real self, they will support them no matter what. these two are amazing and they have worked endlessly on each video, if you realise half of their videos go for like 20/30 minutes and this video goes for an hour. it’s terrible and my heart honestly just tore to pieces when i watched this video. grayson and ethan if you are reading this, don’t put us first but your health, family and friends before us because WE understand, take as much time off as you need because nobody will care.

  • Ivy Dowell
    Ivy Dowell Day ago +2

    all my Aussies out here, we actually got the videos on Wednesday🤣

  • Jacquelyn Enriquez

    I just recently started watching your guy's videos and have died of laughter even on my bad days. You two truly do have a gift of making other people happy and help them get their mind of life for a little while. I could never imagine how much stress you have been through these years of making videos but just know that it didn't go to waste. You have so many people who look up to you. I admire you for making a decision for your wellbeing. This made me so emotion because no body knew what you were going through but you put your things aside to make others happy. y'all are some of the most selfless people and you deserve the world. Im so happy for you two making this decision because you guys deserve to be truly happy! wish y'all the best and cannot wait to see what your lives have in hold for you! Enjoy living it up!

  • Blain Lassiter
    Blain Lassiter Day ago

    You don’t know me, and probably never will, but I’m so proud of you for making this video. It’s a huge risk, but I promise it will be worth it. My dad died on Father’s Day when I was 14. The viewing was on my birthday and the funeral was the day after. My mom had a baby a week later. I couldn’t process it until the next Father’s Day and I realized all my friends had dads. It was my first panic attack of many. Your viewers will grow with you. You are more than a brand. You are worthy of happiness.

  • Lucia Mencaraglia

    Do what you have to do we are not your subscribers we are your supporters. the reason we watch you hard working people is not beacause of the content you struggle to make it's beacause we love watching warm hearted men do what they love and be happy. some people should not be holding you back if they are your "fans", if we are your supporters we help you grow and you help us just by being yourself. Also god dam you've been working your tails off since you were 14 and most of your viewers are 12 and are just watching you because you inspire them and thats why there is so many youtubers in the community because of you people.

    Love you Ethan & Grayson

    from Lucia your number 1 supporter
    pls read this

    also did you move?

  • Tomato Power
    Tomato Power 2 days ago

    DANG, THEY ARE ONLY 19!??!!

  • Helen Reid
    Helen Reid 3 days ago

    You guys are going through a life change! Embrace it and let the feelings come! It’s a growing pain!
    Better on the other side!

  • L T
    L T 3 days ago

    52:58 online it says Shane is 6 foot, and the twins are 5"11. Here it looks like the twins are taller. Anyone know their real heights?

  • Super Fizzy
    Super Fizzy 3 days ago +2

    I'm so glad Shane helped them out, they seem like they're going to be in a better place for the future :)

  • Super Fizzy
    Super Fizzy 3 days ago +1

    "I feel good...about youtube too."


  • Famous Infamous
    Famous Infamous 4 days ago +1

    me: *sees that one twin is wearing black and the other is wearing white*
    i had to. sorry lol.
    but all jokes aside, i love e and gray. theyve been through some serious shit and i feel so bad since their literally 19. theyre such strong people. 💞💞

  • Hafsa Ali
    Hafsa Ali 4 days ago +1

    If they make a remake of VD and they use Grayson and Ethan I wouldn’t mind tbh, they’ve been 19-20 for like forever.

  • Kai Robinson
    Kai Robinson 4 days ago

    Yall probably wont see this comment but if you do know that I am praying for you both and also get some rest! Grieve, be with family, and allow yourself to be able to be present. I am not a consistent watcher of you both but I realize and I hope that others realize that yall are human beings first and youtubers second. Yall can come back and yall can show growth. But grieve please. Take the time you need.

    • Kai Robinson
      Kai Robinson 4 days ago

      I do love yalls videos however you are not responsible for me. The responsibility yall put on yourselves is so kind and I think 100% how we should all live. Others > ourselves but you can't pour from an empty cup.

  • April Chamberlain
    April Chamberlain 4 days ago

    I just started watching this channel and love watching you but you guys have to do what makes you happy and if you're neglecting your happiness and your lives for TheXvid videos it's not healthy. You guys are so young and have your whole lives ahead of you please go out and enjoy them.
    Losing a parent is hard. I am 41 and lost my Dad when I was 18yrs old, he was 50yrs old. He raised 3 girls by himself so he was my everything and when he died it shattered me in ways I couldn't ever imagine. It's been 23yrs & to this day it still feels like yesterday. From my own experience you will always grieve for your Dad but it will get a bit easier as time goes by. You never ever get over losing a loved one you make room for the pain in your heart.
    You guys are awesome & I wish you the best of luck in whatever way you guys decide to go!!
    I really enjoyed this more serious side of you, thank you for showing that!!

  • Liz is Living
    Liz is Living 4 days ago

    💜 💜

  • ye
    ye 4 days ago

    they should get matching tattoos

  • Daniel Villa Art Studio

    Over ten minutes until I got the purpose of the video...the suspense.

  • Grayson and Ethan For life

    The way Ethan’s voice cracked put me in my feelings 😫😥😭💔

  • Grayson and Ethan For life

    I feel so sorry for the twins 😔 bc I know what it feels like bc I lost my anti when I was was just about to turn 10 and her funeral was the day after my birthday and she was the only anti my family talked to and it just brakes my heart bc my dads side of my family didn’t even know it was my birthday 😭💔I’m sat in tears bc she didn’t make it until I hit double digit💔😭and the twins are the only people that make me smile through my hard times 😭💔stuff like this makes me so sad😥R.I.P Anti Melinda 😭💔

  • Sara xox
    Sara xox 5 days ago

    It actually hurts me because you guys are so young and people expect so much from you but they don’t realise that you actually have a life to live and you only get once to enjoy it so do the best you can because we don’t want you to be hurt cause you think your going to let us down which is not true at all you guys a fucking amazing and keep being amazing and not to put too much pressure on yourselves

  • Absolve M
    Absolve M 5 days ago

    Shane hit the nail on the head with all this. Growth is inevitable and paramount. Embrace it, live it.

    INXANE GAMING 5 days ago +2

    We love you, not uploading for sometime isn’t going to change that and you guys be happy first cause your happiness really reflects to your content and make time for yourselves.❤️❤️

  • Fallon Lineberger
    Fallon Lineberger 6 days ago +1

    I don’t watch you guys a lot bc like Shane I don’t think I’m the demographic but I will def tune in from now on because that shit was REAL. That’s what people want to see!! That’s what makes youtubers legendary! Showing real life stuff and opening up to your viewers. You guys are great and shouldn’t feel guilty about any of it. Live your life-that’s what your dad would’ve wanted!:)

  • GabyGirl Garcia
    GabyGirl Garcia 6 days ago +3

    watching this a second time watching this got me crying because the fact that Eathan tryed not cry is so sad and at that point i just wanted to hug him

  • Solomiia Skorokhod
    Solomiia Skorokhod 6 days ago +4

    the 12k dislikes are the people that didn’t finish the video :(

  • Kollin Kae Findley
    Kollin Kae Findley 7 days ago

    Thank you Shane for helping these amazing young men.

  • Esmee Damming
    Esmee Damming 7 days ago

    You guys are really brave to talk about this and I truly hope that you will find the happiness that everyone deserves in life!

  • Alama Henry
    Alama Henry 7 days ago +1

    omg Its 2020 and I'm just rewatching all their videos...yea I know no one asked but

  • kirstyn samuels
    kirstyn samuels 7 days ago +7

    who else is laying in their bed and crying while they are talking about their dad

  • Ari Grande
    Ari Grande 7 days ago +2

    I'm hurting too and I was trying to hide it for so long, I always thought I was just sad, but it's more than this, now I have to put my life on hold bc of my mental health and I totally understand what you're going through guys(maybe not fully), if you don't have the mental health you need then nothing is possible, take your time, true fans will always understand and support ♡

  • Kids Kanafani
    Kids Kanafani 7 days ago

    No one is stopping u to do the things u love do whatever even if u want make videos a year no one will stop u

  • Beth Smith
    Beth Smith 8 days ago

    Hiatus is such a sign of strength & health! This is NOT a stop. This is a PIVOT. You’re moving forward because you’re growing. Your dad would be so proud of you! Such wonderful advice from Shane!!

  • Katrina Selby
    Katrina Selby 8 days ago

    i agree w shane. i think i would be more excited if you guys delayed ur weekly posts bcuz i would be more energized and thrilled to know what's up with you guys. health and ur personal life matters especially at ur age you should be having fun and living ur life than staying inside ur house nd going on ur electronics.

  • Nicole Mikhail
    Nicole Mikhail 8 days ago

    Whoever disliked this doesn't understand how hard this must be for someone to just talk about all this especially talking about a loss of a beloved, and someone who they said was "a brother to them and it was just like it was just the 3 of them" and to be honest that is a side for sure that i never thought i would see from them,but i really am happy and appreciative of seeing it.

  • REEE kid
    REEE kid 8 days ago

    I would pay a whole lot of money to have Shane as my therapist who else would?

  • Alyssa Blondin
    Alyssa Blondin 8 days ago

    Damn. I love you guys and I am so proud of you.

  • Alyssa Blondin
    Alyssa Blondin 8 days ago

    I really really really really wish that I could be with you guys right now. I really just wanna give you guys a HUGE hug and just watch a bunch of movies wrapped up each in our own fuzzy blankets. Like I just wanna give you guys a hug. I know this was posted like 3 months ago but still.
    I just wanna give you guys a big hug!

  • Tanaya Diwanji
    Tanaya Diwanji 8 days ago

    hi. i know exactly how you feel, i lost a parent almost six months ago when i was 18 and i was forced to go back to my reality just because i thought it was what i needed to do. as i hear you guys saying that you guys were really close to your dad, i was really frickin close to my mom. and it happened in such a flash that none of my family members could even comprehend what's happening. I, too, have a sibling i can lean on and you guys are lucky to have each other. i 100% agree on maturing with your content and if you guys think that weekly updates aren't working out then go for it! all the best, and more power to you! this video made me rethink a lot how i felt about things. thank you.

  • Enessa Kara
    Enessa Kara 9 days ago

    you guys are so awesome... love how genuine this video was. Thank you

  • Tara Fraser
    Tara Fraser 9 days ago

    Shane is truly an angel on earth ❤

  • Grace Soares
    Grace Soares 9 days ago

    Keep doing wht ever makes u happy... Just think abt yourself and prioritise your happiness over everything els... Everyone who isnt a shit head will continue to love and support u for who u r!

  • Litia Okesene
    Litia Okesene 10 days ago

    I respect this so much!

  • chocolatevanillaswirlwithcookiecrunchflakes

    can someone summarize i have homework

    • Kodiak
      Kodiak 8 days ago

      They're not making weekly vids anymore. They're still gonna post but they're gonna put a lot more time and effort into the stuff they post.

  • Shayssa Richardson
    Shayssa Richardson 10 days ago +1

    Why does this only have 546K likes🤨

  • Emily Kelly
    Emily Kelly 10 days ago

    I can honestly say that this is my favorite video of theirs. it was a whole rollercoaster of emotions, but that's okay because it's the truth and it's what every one of us feels all the time in our lives; at first, this was so sad, and then towards the end it started to get inspirational and happy, but most of all this video was real. it was so genuine and real, and that's not only refreshing to see, but it's so great that you guys were able to share about this and try and better yourselves and work on making yourselves happier, it truly was heartbreaking, yet inspirational and beautiful, thank you.

  • shelby beninati
    shelby beninati 10 days ago

    they havent been happy...and i feel bad.

  • Mary Narcissus
    Mary Narcissus 11 days ago

    dat just shows how not every1s perfect

  • AvexGab
    AvexGab 11 days ago +73

    I’d pay an unhealthy amount of money for a therapy session with Shane.

    • Famous Infamous
      Famous Infamous 4 days ago +2

      Stephxxgabm X i would pay an amount that would be way beyond unhealthy lol

  • some bitch
    some bitch 11 days ago +17

    I feel so bad cause everything they do is for us, they wasted their childhood making us laugh and they can't grow cause they are scared to let us down, we don't deserve that ☹️😣

    • some bitch
      some bitch 22 hours ago

      @charcs_7 I meant we don't deserve to have them 😭💗

    • charcs_7
      charcs_7 6 days ago +3

      some bitch they don’t deserve that**

  • Briseidy Padilla
    Briseidy Padilla 11 days ago

    Keep being your selfs

  • Greathan Dolan
    Greathan Dolan 11 days ago +1

    Sry this is rly long but I thought you guys should hear this I’ve been watching you guys 2014, and I’ve seen u guys grow as people and youtubers and it’s been such and enjoyable rollercoaster and I’m not planning to get off anytime soon and you guys have never let me or your subscribers down by any means in any way. You guys have put in so much hard work into making us happy and I’m so thankful for that and all I want for you guys is for you to be happy and healthy and if that means not posting every week I’m 1000% fine with that. Idk I jst figure it was something you should hear from me

  • Rene Garcia
    Rene Garcia 11 days ago

    I thought you guys where goin to say your gay because you went with shane

  • Rene Garcia
    Rene Garcia 11 days ago +1

    Is Grayson and James charales dating

    • Isabella van Rooyen
      Isabella van Rooyen 10 days ago +1

      Rene Garcia no lol they don’t even talk anymore 🤷‍♀️