Girl Chat: Embracing Your Age

  • Published on Feb 9, 2019
  • The ladies of “The Real” chat about premature age anxiety and society’s perception of age, specifically in relation to women. They also have an open discussion about tattoos and the judgment that surrounds them. Do you have any tattoos? If so, do you feel like people judge you for them?

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  • wadi gaji
    wadi gaji 6 hours ago

    who is more likely to have a tattoo , a criminal or the law abiding?

  • Richelle Woodley
    Richelle Woodley 4 days ago

    Tamera forgot about the white side of her family.🤣🤣🤣..she does look amazing though..she is stunning😍

  • Bre ME
    Bre ME 7 days ago

    I turned 23 this year and feel the pressure of getting old. Being alone, never going out, never having a relationship, only really want to be at home, seeing people my age and younger doing so many things in their life and feeling worthless... Age scares me to death. I feel my life going by so fast and slipping away from my hands.

  • Steph Powell
    Steph Powell 9 days ago

    Adrienne looks stunning!

  • Robyn Landaker
    Robyn Landaker Month ago +1

    I'm 30 and proud of it

  • chris h
    chris h Month ago

    Times may change but the Word of God is forever.

  • C Baps
    C Baps Month ago +1

    To be honest..when I pay close attention to things Tamera say or facial expressions she makes, I realize her personality isn't good for me🤷🏽‍♀️

  • Ana
    Ana Month ago

    I felt that "just take me back to sleep, the pain is so big I don't know why my eyes are opening..."
    Thank you ladies for being real about this and about getting old, I really struggle with all that

  • Kayte Larsen
    Kayte Larsen Month ago

    Tatu is a Tahitian word that means to mark.
    I understand exactly why God said do not tattoo yourself and do not Mark yourselves for the Dead. Do not cut your flesh for the dead.
    Because I have learned from people who came out of occultism that they will show the ranks through tattooing. It is a blood ritual that you are performing between yourself and the tattoo artist. And it is a transfer of demonic spirits. This is why they say tattoos are addictive. Well addiction is unclean spirits people get delivered from. I have one tattoo and I prayed to sever and break the ungodly Soul tie formed between myself and the tattoo artist. I prayed over the tattoo I repented for the tattoo and I will never ever ever get another one again. Because I know the truth behind it now.
    God is the Creator and everything He creates is perfect. So what I learned is tattoos is almost like graffiti on a Priceless masterpiece. If I could go back in time I would be 1 of the rare people who walks the face of this Earth, in these times, without any tattoos on my body.

  • Pedro Q
    Pedro Q Month ago

    I get scared Turing 30 and am 24 right now

  • Laydee Leshay
    Laydee Leshay Month ago +1

    GET OFF MILLENNIALS! Dang, this show constantly paints a negative images of us but I usually don’t fit their descriptions. 🙄

  • PAZ
    PAZ 2 months ago

    Ya'll the Aaliyah rep 🥺💜 I love you guys

  • Daniel Beganovic
    Daniel Beganovic 2 months ago


  • Vanessa Celedon
    Vanessa Celedon 2 months ago +1

    Ladies I'm 37 and can't wait till I'm 40 have heard great things and also going gray and decided to let my grays be the highlights 😉🙃😣😉

  • Angie Felangie
    Angie Felangie 2 months ago

    Have you noticed men get even hotter with years and more appealing to girls. Why it has to be different for women? Why are we shamed when we start getting wrinkles? Men like the innocence of to young girls, and men don't want to deal with the experience of a grown woman.

  • monikabutmaybedaisy
    monikabutmaybedaisy 3 months ago

    This makes me feel better about my age... I know I need to chill but I’ve always had a fear of growing up..

  • Meme L
    Meme L 3 months ago

    love Monica

  • jen s
    jen s 3 months ago

    Tamera u look great hun

  • Abiana C
    Abiana C 3 months ago +1

    Okay guys but still, use an antiaging cream and sunscreen
    protect your skin, drink lots of water, eat three meals, sleep, move a lot, and you'll age gracefully

  • GigiSxm
    GigiSxm 3 months ago

    My first greys were in the nether regions. Nobody prepared me for this

  • tisland
    tisland 3 months ago +1

    It's actually younger women who shame older women for their age; and they do it harshly. Little do they know that they are aging themselves. They need to stop and realize that if another woman was born before them then all that means is that they were born before them. It doesn't change anything...happiness, sexiness, love remains...the difference is intelligence and maturity improves. Ppl need to learn that aging is a source of privilege, not a disadvantage as most want to enforce.

  • Akia W
    Akia W 3 months ago

    All my life, I never looked forward to 30 😂. It seems so old. But after 30 is fine 🤷🏾‍♀️😂. I have 6 years to go 😤. Better drag on. Not ready to turn 30.

  • Norma M. Perez
    Norma M. Perez 3 months ago

    Make these clips longer and NOT 100 years old

  • Shreese Vanderhorst
    Shreese Vanderhorst 3 months ago

    Monica's makeup is flawless!!!

  • benni secreto
    benni secreto 3 months ago

    Tamera is so beautiful! I love your curls!

  • The Cool Dude
    The Cool Dude 3 months ago +1

    Tamara and Adrienne like their men old

  • Sri Naidnur
    Sri Naidnur 4 months ago

    I am not a fan of this new guest host

  • Boney Locs
    Boney Locs 4 months ago

    I love Lani! She said give them a juice box and an Xbox.

  • Jenie's MindEscape
    Jenie's MindEscape 4 months ago

    I am 40 and I feel pretty awesome. The things I worried about in my 20s and 30s no longer hold as much weight. Although I have my moments of feeling I am not where I want to be in life, I am reminded of how much I have accomplished and survived. As I get older, I am more focused on how I can be a better person and how I can contribute to a better world rather than materialistic things. #feelingblessed

  • Antonia Chavez
    Antonia Chavez 4 months ago +1

    When people say "I'm going grey!" like it's a bad thing gets to me everytime 😂 I literally started going grey at 13!! And I love it!!!🥰✌💋💁‍♀️ and I guess it's not necessarily grey its straight up white!👯‍♀️💟

    • Antonia Chavez
      Antonia Chavez 4 months ago

      @Denise Jimenez awe girl thank you so much!! And I totally understand where your coming from though! I'm 24 now and it took me a while to get here.. When they first started coming in I didn't like it because they were just short white hairs popping up (and only in the front where my streak is now) and they were so hard to maintain. Most of high school I started bleaching my hair and dying it all different colors, but eventually when the white becane more prominent I had to bleach my hair more and more to get my colors to stick. I just didn't want to damage it anymore so I dyed it all one color in 2013 and haven't colored it since.. Everyone always asks where I get it done because they've tried it and it never comes out as white and I'm just there like "uhh it's not dyed, but thank you"😂

    • Denise Jimenez
      Denise Jimenez 4 months ago +1

      Antonia Chavez omg i started getting greys at about 19/20 and since then (i’ll be 27 soon) i’ve HATEDDDDD my hair so i dye it blonde lmao i wish i was as confident as you are, maybe one day 😂 your hair looks amazing on you 😍

  • Jullie
    Jullie 4 months ago

    When she asked do you guys Ever wanna go back to your 20s ? And everyone said “ heck no “ “no!” Lol stop lying . Ya stay frontin

    • SARA
      SARA 13 days ago

      Jullie I'm 35 and honestly I hated most of my 20s...I'd probably go back to the ages of 27-29, but my 20s sucked booty

  • 123hgardner
    123hgardner 4 months ago

    I guess I am weird. The alternative to growing older is death and I want to live! I'm happy to be alive!

  • Mrs. Magical Monica
    Mrs. Magical Monica 5 months ago

    I absolutely LOVE Monica! She’s beautiful and her voice is amazing.

  • Palesa Thipane
    Palesa Thipane 5 months ago

    I love jeani

  • Yolanda Warren
    Yolanda Warren 5 months ago

    Did Monica just say that she is 36? I thought she was 38 and will be 39 later this year.

  • Rochelle Smith
    Rochelle Smith 5 months ago

    When Tam said 2 amazing women in her life, I thought she said kids lol

  • Big O
    Big O 5 months ago

    I love older women currently looking for a woman 40+

  • Charles Skipper
    Charles Skipper 6 months ago +1

    Tht top tht Jeannie wearin is the same top tht Cardi B wore on love and hip hop the reunion

  • Heida Summer
    Heida Summer 6 months ago

    Get it Monica, get it! I married 7 yrs younger. I'm 40, he's 33. We're 7 years, 1 mth and 8 days apart. 😍

  • Kayla Bullock
    Kayla Bullock 6 months ago +1

    Who else thought of the Kardashian/Jenner family during this convo?😂😂😂

  • Atta Senior
    Atta Senior 6 months ago

    I do too and I’m only 16 I feel so old where is my childhood

  • Luc-sen's Cham
    Luc-sen's Cham 6 months ago

    it is totally different for me... I always looked older than my age, I am 19 I am just now learning how to do the makeup stuff and the only time I really wear is when i am going to church sometimes but it's nothing crazy lml... but even without makeup, I look older than my age... it's to the point where I feel uncomfortable with my face and body because I always get hit on by older people, I never get hit on by people my age..... And whenever I am walking with my siblings they say I am their mom, when I am with my mom they say I look like the mother, or when I am with my aunt they say we look like sisters... and it's really hard tbh but I gotta deal with it... so I done went through so many things in my 19 years of existence that I feel like a 30-year-old mentally lol !

  • jay
    jay 6 months ago

    "im not afraid to turn 40 because i look very young" that's the whole point of the conversation tamera. women fear ageing because their looks change/ they decrease in value. so you saying you look younger than your age feeds into that idea that if you don't you have less value/ you should dread your birthday

  • Michelle lopez
    Michelle lopez 6 months ago

    11:35 omg yes amen

  • KiKi !!!!!!
    KiKi !!!!!! 6 months ago

    Loni makeup is like a box of never know what your going to get !

  • Pluto’s Solo
    Pluto’s Solo 6 months ago

    ??? Do they know that millennials are about to turn 30?? Millennials don’t stay 25 forever

  • Carla Maddison
    Carla Maddison 6 months ago

    lol !!! lol!!! Monica put a white jesus on her arm LOL !!1 daaang... has she never read the bible...jesus is black from the line of judah, david....and they are described as black unto the !!!!

  • claritycentral
    claritycentral 6 months ago

    I relate with the Golden Girls....not even 40 but i feel comfortable hanging out with those golden girls. They make being old seem exciting lol...
    It was not until the photo came up that i realised that the Woman in the middle is Monica.

  • Ellis Smith
    Ellis Smith 6 months ago +1


  • Karen H.
    Karen H. 6 months ago

    I am 25 and I think the way you think. It just depends what life has given you to deal with.

  • amzz xx
    amzz xx 6 months ago

    I’m 15😂

  • A New Love Official
    A New Love Official 6 months ago +1

    Age is never a problem unless you let yourself look older than Your age though. I feel so happy for Monica about her love life because even if her boyfriend is 5 years younger than her but it's not gonna be an issue with them.

  • Onefaithinjesus Cross
    Onefaithinjesus Cross 6 months ago

    Yeah that look don't mess with me I dare you to mess with me

  • Onefaithinjesus Cross
    Onefaithinjesus Cross 6 months ago

    Okay it shows all in his face that he g*********** tattoo or no tattoo he looks like a gang banger change of face and maybe people are change the way they perceive you are what you wear

  • Yoncé Knowles
    Yoncé Knowles 6 months ago

    she has a white jesus tattooed on her arm..that in itself says alot about how much she knows about her history..doesnt the bible say not to mark your body? lol oh the irony...

  • Glenda Rashanna
    Glenda Rashanna 6 months ago

    Even though this is old, I hate this, only because I'm a millennial and went to school for beauty marketing and merchandise and one of the most important things I learned is that skin care and anti aging products can actually be beneficial to your looks if you're using them in your earlier ages. Although it's not needed, I just feel like this topic wasn't researched enough. We live in a generation where we have more access to information that wasn't accessible before.

  • Brittany Jacqueline
    Brittany Jacqueline 6 months ago

    "Times change" but origins don't honey. Js 🤷🏽

  • Jewels Okike
    Jewels Okike 6 months ago

    Mine has no meaning. It is estheticall y attractive tribal art.

  • Jewels Okike
    Jewels Okike 6 months ago

    Oh. That's too many I only have a few. Back of my neck. Guys can do that. I love this show it's almost like the other panel.

  • Jewels Okike
    Jewels Okike 6 months ago