3 Jokes That Make People Instantly Like You

  • Published on Sep 19, 2016
  • Ellen Degeneres' Tips To Making People Instantly Like You
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    We all want people to like us. And Ellen Degeneres seems to have that down to a science.
    Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likable hosts on TV. And it’s largely due to the types of jokes that she makes. Almost all hosts are funny, but Ellen’s style of comedy has a way of instantly endearing her guests to her.
    Today we are going to talk about the most common types of jokes that Ellen makes, how you can use them to get people to immediately like you, and some habits that you can work on to just generally be funnier throughout your day.
    1:10 - The kind of jokes that make people sad, ones that Ellen rarely makes
    2:08 - Self-deprecating jokes make people feel comfortable around Ellen
    3:10 - Poking fun at subjects that people are not insecure about allows Ellen to crack jokes without upsetting people
    5:20 - Making ego boosting jokes that make other people feel good, makes Ellen someone that people want to spend more time with
    5:59 - Ellen can also joke around and just simply be silly
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  • Billie Eyelish
    Billie Eyelish 14 hours ago +1

    Social anxiety makes it hard as fuck for me. I’m constantly in fear of being judged and I hate it

  • Billie Eyelish
    Billie Eyelish 14 hours ago +1

    U see, the problem is that I think my sense of humour is kinda like Ellen’s, but also I sometimes make jokes at someone else’s expense, BUT only because most of my friends do that and it seems like the only way to make them laugh?

  • Billie Eyelish
    Billie Eyelish 14 hours ago +1

    I guess one of those jokes being myself won’t make ppl like me

  • JetBlaze 10
    JetBlaze 10 18 hours ago

    3 jokes to avoid

  • Z V
    Z V Day ago +1


  • The Optimist
    The Optimist Day ago

    6,686,474th view!!!!!!

  • Shanks D. Badass
    Shanks D. Badass 3 days ago

    Imagine thinking Ellen is funny

  • moomoomoomoo .moomoomoo

    fk it

  • EinSofQuester
    EinSofQuester 4 days ago

    Ellen the Generous

  • Ali Raza
    Ali Raza 4 days ago

    Naah, Not working for me.

  • Brian Bell
    Brian Bell 5 days ago

    Cover Ozzy Osbourne

  • MrRoger S
    MrRoger S 5 days ago

    It’s very important for ellen to be liked by everyone (her own words in a Seinfeld interview) That shows in her comedy and interviewstyle. If your goal in life is to be liked by everyone it will make you very dependend on others. This is often seen with people who are in fact very lonely, have low selfasteem or/and people who don’t like themselves. Calculated behaviour compensates for those feelings (always pleasing others, never expressing critasism etc) , though in the long run it only cultivates those negative feelings deep inside

  • oliver o sullivan
    oliver o sullivan 5 days ago

    These are awful hahahahah poking fun oh thanks I’m cured

  • Angry Clown
    Angry Clown 6 days ago

    Those Oscars in background look like gummy bears

  • Benito Stalini
    Benito Stalini 10 days ago

    The only loser in my jokes are Sal, tonight's biggest loser.

  • Jacob'OHiPandaBear Gotlieb

    Ellen gots issues too, she is not perfect.|| did not know it was all about ellen-

  • durcheinander
    durcheinander 10 days ago

    Lol seriously, the advice is to act like a professional comedian in your day-to-day life? I would fucking die if I had to be around someone like that at work, it would look completely artificial (and it would be, if they were only following your advice). Not to mention that I really, really don't find this brand of bright, light-hearted humor funny. At all.
    People are different, let them stay different. Why do we need to use silly tricks like this just to make others like us. It's building a persona that likely has nothing to do with the real you

  • SFortune17
    SFortune17 10 days ago

    she"s the best

  • utsukushi1234
    utsukushi1234 10 days ago

    I Genuinely feel like I’m autistic and this video is helping me

  • Bong Me
    Bong Me 10 days ago

    Neah, can look egocentric to make the joke about you, like if someone says she is born in 98 I can say I have pants I bought that year, it will be like "so what? You cheap bastard, why do you still keep them?"

  • Nicky - Sam
    Nicky - Sam 11 days ago

    Hey Guys i'm Subbing to all Who will Sub me

  • James Davis
    James Davis 12 days ago

    Great content and VERY well delivered! I had years and years of similar (but ultimately inferior) sales and/or presentation training, but really, they rarely met or exceeded your level of expertise and watch/listen-ability. I'm serious man, you're good - you're really, really good! Yeah, I'm subscribing.

  • King Solomon
    King Solomon 12 days ago


  • Bruce Wayne
    Bruce Wayne 13 days ago

    I just got myself into a fist fight...
    thanks buddy

  • M G
    M G 14 days ago

    What a ugly LESBO.....

  • Chivas Yamaha
    Chivas Yamaha 14 days ago

    She's likeable, but you also get tired of her very quickly.

  • Scarlett Darlington
    Scarlett Darlington 16 days ago


  • Lam Pham
    Lam Pham 16 days ago +1

    Use memes.

  • Ya Fookin’ Losah
    Ya Fookin’ Losah 17 days ago +1

    Too many self deprecating jokes are cringe tho

  • The decent brother
    The decent brother 17 days ago

    I think i found my idol

  • kingston bear
    kingston bear 19 days ago

    The part about self deprecating humor. I feel like very likable comedians do this. Words are strong however and I think that is why they have depression issues.

  • Queen Vareena Tormentor of Cunts

    Be a fake snotrag, get a TV show

  • Richie Fong
    Richie Fong 21 day ago

    ellen: I have cancer
    crowd: HAHAHHAHAHA

  • theoriginalThud
    theoriginalThud 21 day ago +1

    I think Ellen is great but I would be careful with using self deprecating humor. It can lead to an increase in low self esteem and potentially make some people look down on you. I do think the world needs more silliness though.

  • Kevinhillcrest
    Kevinhillcrest 22 days ago

    Am I being manipulative for watching this?

  • Green Barrel
    Green Barrel 23 days ago

    So, a breakdown of why Ellen isn't funny outside of her core audience... if you'd titled it like that, I might've given the video a like.

  • Keserovic Slobodan
    Keserovic Slobodan 25 days ago

    She is not sexy but She is funy

  • Keserovic Slobodan
    Keserovic Slobodan 25 days ago

    She is smart ,to be realy funy you need a great brain and being litl Crazy

  • xx
    xx 25 days ago

    I used to feel making others laugh is easy, but once I grow older I find it harder and harder to crack someone up smh

  • IEMK
    IEMK 26 days ago +1

    ellen was a dick to ninja

  • George Marsilio
    George Marsilio 26 days ago

    Ellen is a better comedienne than talk show person

  • Branon Fontaine
    Branon Fontaine 26 days ago +1

    Holy hell, that's gotta be the ugliest chewbacca impersonator in existence that's dancin with Ellen @7:59....goddamn....

  • Jane Stoller
    Jane Stoller 27 days ago

    I'll remember this next time

  • Uni Kitty
    Uni Kitty 27 days ago

    I have a hair due from 1988. I'm going to be honest it was very hard to stop my spiral perms tease the top and spray the shit out of my hair with Aqua Net. I think I kinda let it go. Then Pretty Woman hair..Its it coming back? Say yes. Lol

  • Janet White
    Janet White 27 days ago

    I tried to watch that next vid...what do i have to do to go past that page? Not too charismatic.

  • Mike May
    Mike May 28 days ago

    Wow so many rules to a joke

  • Lynne Marie
    Lynne Marie 28 days ago

    In my opinion, just looking at her makes me LAUGH... She looks like an ELF and just wants to be a MAN so bad... Her latest super short hair cut is just so HORRIBLE looking making her ears look even BIGGER... That lesbo Butch look has always been comical to me when ANY woman does it.... And what is it with lesbos and "VESTS"?.... LOL!

  • stephen madl
    stephen madl 29 days ago

    Notice how uncomfortable Ellen was when she was making the negative joke toward Liza? I wonder if she even wanted to do it.

  • Auriel con A A-riir
    Auriel con A A-riir 29 days ago

    Wut's ur Chinese new year? Oh, pardon mi, wut's ur Chinese zodiac sign? (W8 4 response)
    Wuts ur zodiac sign? Oh kewl. & wut's ur Shy Niece sign?

  • Santos Martínez
    Santos Martínez 29 days ago

    Degeneres a model for society? JA

  • NobleGuy
    NobleGuy 29 days ago

    Have you understood the irony of having "Charisma" in your name? :D
    Seriously, if you have to learn this kind of stuff then you're never going to get it.
    It's natural or it's non-existent.

  • John Cliff
    John Cliff 29 days ago

    It is not working here in the U.K. sorry I must have missed something at school or some where. I don't think we speak the same language.

  • Ghalaghor McAllistor

    Don't be like Amy and reuse one of Ellen's jokes.

  • Lochdochart
    Lochdochart Month ago

    I don´t know anyone who likes this old bag. She´s not remotely funny.

  • Isaac B
    Isaac B Month ago

    GREAT RADIO VOICE! Your voice is gold!

  • Pat The Cat
    Pat The Cat Month ago +5

    The 4 emotions to a great impression:
    1. Horny
    2. Sad
    3. Awkward
    4. Back to Horny again

  • EgyptianKingIam
    EgyptianKingIam Month ago

    Great video, young man!

  • Abc 123
    Abc 123 Month ago

    Sir you should write books, about this social psychology,

    • Charisma on Command
      Charisma on Command  28 days ago

      ~ We actually have a book on Amazon called "Charisma on Command". Feel free to check it out. :-)

  • Sa Huynh
    Sa Huynh Month ago

    Nice plug at the end

  • Mr. Tommy Badger
    Mr. Tommy Badger Month ago

    Why not do this? Because managers and executives are psychopaths who do not understand humor and are terrified of laughter in general. Whenever one of these monsters hears laughter they assume the employees are laughing AT them. That's why American business success is measured by how many employees you have laid off, demoted, recategorized to part-time status, or put under so much stress that the employee had a heart attack or developed cancer.

  • D.E.B. B
    D.E.B. B Month ago

    she's likable, but I don't find her to be funny. Just one of those things.

  • Alexis Massey
    Alexis Massey Month ago

    She's fake af lol

  • Medico Kokun
    Medico Kokun Month ago

    Moral of the story : Be like Ellen, a lesbian Dory, just keep swimming

  • Diana Karyan
    Diana Karyan Month ago

    Please make a video about Cate Blanchett’s charisma

  • llama llama
    llama llama Month ago

    Me dancing around enemies hoping they will accept me. Gets punched instead.

  • Tandra Singh
    Tandra Singh Month ago

    Major shoutout to this channel for creating the sociopath that I am today

  • Grace Bennett
    Grace Bennett Month ago +1

    How did I get to this? I was watching study hacks... I’m not complaining

  • Essix
    Essix Month ago

    i try to be silly but i just end up being annoying. am I doing something wrong or do my friends have sticks up their asses?

  • Bruce Cunningham
    Bruce Cunningham Month ago

    haha, kids never listen to a mental nutcase like Ellen! run the other way!

  • Nikki D
    Nikki D Month ago

    How come all this guy talks about is how to get people to like you....yet he just rubs me the wrong way?

  • blud work
    blud work Month ago

    I don't know this video seems like a stretch. All those people going on ellens show know there will be jokes, that's not the same as your typical social situation with people you may not know that well

  • Jordan Fire Star
    Jordan Fire Star Month ago +1

    Ellen Degeneres, more like Ellen Degenerate

    did i do it right?

  • ccrosbie33
    ccrosbie33 Month ago

    Ten minutes of Ellen worship with maybe one or two good points is all.

  • Gae Elle
    Gae Elle Month ago

    My humor comes from facial expressions 😏

    JÄGER Month ago


  • k01dsv
    k01dsv Month ago +1

    I needed this... All my dead baby jokes aren't making me any friends :(

  • Always A Lady 2 U
    Always A Lady 2 U Month ago

    You have to be fun different that makes her the best i love her she is so real .

  • Always A Lady 2 U
    Always A Lady 2 U Month ago

    I have always adored Ellen i remember when she appeared on tv i was in my late twenties and i said if i was gay she would be it for me she is one hot sexy lady i am glad she is still going strong i love her my first gal crush even though i am straight as a board but thats alright lol....

  • Time pass Panda
    Time pass Panda Month ago

    Charlie-"I know it might sound silly"
    Me-"It is funny then"

  • Jamie Daugherty
    Jamie Daugherty Month ago

    Analyzing the art of her gift might get you magnatized. Careful not to developed a personality disorder.

  • Maryam
    Maryam Month ago


  • dan peters
    dan peters Month ago

    find her annoying and obsessed with success and famous people and being famous .

  • dan peters
    dan peters Month ago

    not an ellen fan admire her success.

  • Janice Murphy
    Janice Murphy Month ago

    Oh yeah standing waiting on the elevator you see the little light up lights where the elevator went up but you don't ever see where it comes down why, why.?awm

  • Patsy Valenti
    Patsy Valenti Month ago

    I would like a telephone number so I can cancel any more deliveries! They do not let you know when they deliver another bottle ! Telephone number PLEASE!!

  • neha vkumar
    neha vkumar Month ago

    I do a lot of self deprication jokes . So I have a lot of friends but a few of my friends keep calling me dum which upsets me but I do not show it.

  • Ferrara KidsClub
    Ferrara KidsClub Month ago

    It,s sarcasm

  • Island of Domination

    This is a good one - what did the beaver say to the tree? It's been nice gnawing you! Everybody loves that & women instantly fall in love with me!😆🙂🍭🐶🤴

  • Thando Hlophe
    Thando Hlophe Month ago

    Nelson Mandela

  • That Kid Adrian
    That Kid Adrian Month ago

    Is it just me or is Ellen kinda weird and cringy

  • el mecánico
    el mecánico Month ago

    Ellen degenerated is a degenerate. Nothing positive about her comedy. Please stop leading folks to the dark side. This is pure shit ,

  • Sarah Borowik
    Sarah Borowik Month ago

    Love your style of analyzing ❤

  • Madison Pratt
    Madison Pratt Month ago +3

    2:16. Is that a laugh or a cry for help?

  • Nero Mauritzen
    Nero Mauritzen Month ago

    *They call me MagnetMan*

  • Nero Mauritzen
    Nero Mauritzen Month ago

    I find it strange to see how you never use a picture of yourself when you display positive emotions.
    Perhaps I could offer you my confidence course?

  • xycreation
    xycreation Month ago

    Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likeable hosts....????? Really ? Wow America is more f***ed up than I thought if that is the case. Another 'i'm entitled Cathy Newman' clone in my opinion

  • Erikk kenneth Deneke

    She looks like an elf abortion

  • Stephen Schulz
    Stephen Schulz Month ago

    So a midget, a tranny and Muslim walk into a bar .........

  • Lizzie Horrocks
    Lizzie Horrocks Month ago

    lovely video! thank you

  • Spirit
    Spirit Month ago

    she is NOT funny, her comedy rubs off from the people she is interviewing. Her stand ups these days are dull and uninspired