3 Jokes That Make People Instantly Like You

  • Published on Sep 19, 2016
  • Ellen Degeneres' Tips To Making People Instantly Like You
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    We all want people to like us. And Ellen Degeneres seems to have that down to a science.
    Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likable hosts on TV. And it’s largely due to the types of jokes that she makes. Almost all hosts are funny, but Ellen’s style of comedy has a way of instantly endearing her guests to her.
    Today we are going to talk about the most common types of jokes that Ellen makes, how you can use them to get people to immediately like you, and some habits that you can work on to just generally be funnier throughout your day.
    1:10 - The kind of jokes that make people sad, ones that Ellen rarely makes
    2:08 - Self-deprecating jokes make people feel comfortable around Ellen
    3:10 - Poking fun at subjects that people are not insecure about allows Ellen to crack jokes without upsetting people
    5:20 - Making ego boosting jokes that make other people feel good, makes Ellen someone that people want to spend more time with
    5:59 - Ellen can also joke around and just simply be silly
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  • Max —————
    Max ————— 20 hours ago

    I meet so many bitchy and rude people...overwhelmingly so, they are everywhere in the city..half the time I treat every stranger the same because I feel if i be me they’ll jump down my throat..You can’t show any signs of insecurity or weakness, that’s the key to charm..a lack of fear.

  • Zero Hero
    Zero Hero Day ago +1

    It ain't working and I got a fight scheduled for next week. How the fuck do I fucked this up?!?

  • lori hill
    lori hill 2 days ago

    My favorite go-to icebreaker joke is:
    Two muffins are baking in an oven.
    One muffin says, "It's hotter than hell in here."
    And the other one says, "Oh my god! A talking muffin!"
    Two penguins are walking down the street.
    One of them says, "You look like you're wearing a tuxedo."
    And the other one says, "Maybe I am."

  • TangoTanjoMusic
    TangoTanjoMusic 2 days ago


  • Lisa Calrone
    Lisa Calrone 2 days ago

    Second video in and I just subscribed. This is SO intelligent and well done. You are wonderful and thank you!

  • Dexter White
    Dexter White 2 days ago

    You have to have a level of intellect in order to understand certain types of humor.

  • Park Florzinha
    Park Florzinha 3 days ago

    Eu achei que ela era a Xuxa

  • lily tony
    lily tony 4 days ago

    When do I meet Ellen oh its only a dream i gese

  • lily tony
    lily tony 4 days ago

    Ellen intelligent that's it she knows how to mend things before they get upset anybody quickly as possible that is a extremely talented

  • lily tony
    lily tony 4 days ago

    Ellen always always soft good listener and I loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove Ellen

  • lily tony
    lily tony 4 days ago

    That is the only hard joke of Ellen

  • lily tony
    lily tony 4 days ago

    Yes yes yes

  • KalvbB
    KalvbB 4 days ago

    You just got caught slacking boy!!! 😤😤😤😤

  • Kasheena Arthur
    Kasheena Arthur 4 days ago

    Just bc people"LIKE"you..doesnot mean theys"VALUE"you..KASHEENA MAGNETIIC ADVICE''' '''

  • Louise Leite
    Louise Leite 4 days ago

    I'm an alternative comedian....I'm not funny.

  • Dan Bur
    Dan Bur 5 days ago

    How to be like Chandler.

  • Darth Beaver
    Darth Beaver 7 days ago

    Ellen is not and never has been funny or likable.

  • ZULU Z
    ZULU Z 8 days ago

    but she's not even funny

  • Saleh Yoosefian
    Saleh Yoosefian 9 days ago

    How about the insecure feeling Priyanka Chopra felt when Ellen was being constantly caustic?

  • Chad Mangum
    Chad Mangum 9 days ago

    Summary: Don't make fun of people. But, at the same time, make fun of them. Contradiction is the ultimate tool of humor. But, seriously, I have no idea what the heck this video is trying to tell me.

  • Lazarus
    Lazarus 9 days ago

    I love Ellen personally and would love to be on her show. Great video.

  • Tee Jay
    Tee Jay 10 days ago

    She is NOT APPROACHABLE in real life. Look through the persona. Yes, it's funny....but she is not a nice person irl. Either she's gotten hard or she's had some bad experiences with freaky fans...or.....she's just always been a bitch. Plus she totally botched the line completely with the Liza Minelli joke. She stumbled over it.

  • Coolspygirl
    Coolspygirl 10 days ago

    I sometimes (unconsciously) slip into a monotone when I talk to people. A lot of people apparently find it funny for so reason.

  • brian houle
    brian houle 10 days ago

    If she is such a joking person , answer this , does the carpet match the drapes ?

  • brian houle
    brian houle 10 days ago

    Buy a blow up doll , or dummy doll and treat her/him like a queen or king !!!!! If it is a male name it George Glass !!!!!

  • Hashirama Senju
    Hashirama Senju 10 days ago

    I'll stick to jazz composition

  • Lara Joanna Jarvis
    Lara Joanna Jarvis 12 days ago

    I never realised I liked Ellen Degeneres as much as aI do!!

  • antwalk 777
    antwalk 777 13 days ago

    Sad the social world is different from the professional world.

  • CTX50
    CTX50 13 days ago

    Ellen is the biggest douche bag on tv. Her show is based on embarrassing her guests and the members of her audience that she brings on stage. She reeks of total insecurity

  • Creepy Potatoes
    Creepy Potatoes 13 days ago


  • Al Bal
    Al Bal 14 days ago

    Jo Lo is the BUTT of it ? Hhhhhh

  • dharmapunk777
    dharmapunk777 14 days ago

    All humour is based on pain.
    If you try to think of an example of a joke that isn't based on pain, the best you're gonna do is come up with a knock knock joke or something similar, and frankly those aren't funny.
    Slapstick is very obviously based on pain. Even silly humour is basically a way of degrading yourself, a mild form of humiliation. Another form of pain. The reason it's ok to laugh though, is because you know that the person isn't actually hurt. The second the pain became real, it would not be funny anymore.

  • Brian Lloyd
    Brian Lloyd 14 days ago

    Ellens inner beauty is unbelievable, such a beauitiful soul. 😍😍

  • Ain’t nobody got time for that

    Thanks American person for teaching us about sarcasm. Being from the UK, we don’t know anything about that.

  • blank rose
    blank rose 16 days ago

    your videos are way to deep (searched)

  • kevin scott
    kevin scott 16 days ago

    She’s not funny = sorry

  • ceplio
    ceplio 17 days ago

    This won't work, you can't be funny if you aren't. Analyzing jokes and humor will undoubtedly make the situation humorless

  • hhk khk
    hhk khk 17 days ago

    I have never liked this woman Instantly or otherwise.

  • Sydney Watson
    Sydney Watson 17 days ago

    i always self deprecate but i'm often _too_ negative and it alarms people... oops

  • lolipedofin
    lolipedofin 18 days ago

    Do one for Ricky Gervais! XD

  • Cari
    Cari 19 days ago

    Ellen is just being herself. Haha

  • karina cepeda
    karina cepeda 19 days ago

    who ever wants to be like her or he !!! She doesn't even know who she or he is???

  • I Love My Beard
    I Love My Beard 19 days ago

    Shower people with gifts and they will laugh at your jokes

  • Bewitched2020
    Bewitched2020 20 days ago

    I am not funny or creative enough bc if i was id prob be as successful as Ellen. To answer your question.

  • Madison A
    Madison A 20 days ago

    How to make more people LIKE your video : DO NOT show Michelle Obama... for any reason.

  • Victor Heng
    Victor Heng 20 days ago

    The narrator speaks all the theory, but doesn’t know how to apply on his own video.

  • Molly Taylor
    Molly Taylor 21 day ago

    This guy REALLY likes Ellen!

  • Et'z Sahil khan
    Et'z Sahil khan 21 day ago

    thnku mam

  • P092O9901O09
    P092O9901O09 21 day ago

    I always have some success with making whale noises and yelling WHAT THE FUCK AM I DOING? and then backing away slowly while apologzing

  • Raminta Verikaite
    Raminta Verikaite 22 days ago

    I dk why But I never find her funny, but it leaves just a small grin on my face and only because the other person beside her was loughing to tears, so it's just like catching up.

  • leadspot
    leadspot 23 days ago

    young stand up comedians uses people in the crowd to make fun of, where they coming from or what kind of job they have, Russell Peters have used this technique too... I just find it pretty annoying and it shows that they haven't written any material for the night and just improvise as the night goes by

  • Nina Bambolina
    Nina Bambolina 24 days ago

    hm I myself have the impression that you are better not her enemy and that she can destroy you easily and that she can be dangerous (in a social way) if she not like you. She is really charismatic and funny but she is a type of person I would not trust or want to be friends or have her near my circle...

  • Angelo G
    Angelo G 26 days ago

    She looks like a 12 year old boy, puberty.

  • Chuck Pope
    Chuck Pope 26 days ago

    I watched it and I still hate Ellen Degenerate

  • Salem Wolfe
    Salem Wolfe 26 days ago

    Because what you think is silly might not be funny to someone else. :S

  • Phancy Cat03
    Phancy Cat03 26 days ago

    I already am a joke

    MOHAMED ZEOS 27 days ago

    hey that easy

  • jan stolk
    jan stolk 27 days ago

    There is no joke without a victim , it's the fundament of humor .
    Freud wrote a whole book on it .

  • Aerociviz Nicholas
    Aerociviz Nicholas 28 days ago

    I think I accidentally make these types of jokes, even to people I dont want to necessarily like me lol

  • fadeddreamss
    fadeddreamss 28 days ago

    I think that most people don't act like that because you gotta have a sharp mind to make jokes on the go while not really offending anyone. What I mostly see is people making jokes at the expense of others, instead of making these harmless jokes, or just resorting to old formulas. Of course, if you train yourself to be fun in the right way, your brain gets sharper, but most people just go on autopilot like you said :) I personally love acting silly, it's refreshing and I love when my friends join me. This type of situation has created some of the best memories in my life

  • Very smort Person
    Very smort Person 28 days ago

    Information Recived.

    *person.exe has stopped responding*

  • Yehya Assaf
    Yehya Assaf 29 days ago +2

    the title should have been (why is ellen funny)

  • Yehya Assaf
    Yehya Assaf 29 days ago

    the title should have been (why is ellen funny)

  • Drizzie Mane
    Drizzie Mane 29 days ago +3

    Do Kevin Hart next

  • Devin Peirce
    Devin Peirce Month ago

    Ellen degenerate is really obnoxious, not charismatic

  • justjames1111
    justjames1111 Month ago

    Ellen degenerate isn't that funny.

  • Kinga Gorski
    Kinga Gorski Month ago

    The Heads Up game totally works as a group mood booster haha.

  • Summerbreeze
    Summerbreeze Month ago

    It's interesting that a certain culture thinks making joke is essential. It bores people most of the time.

  • my name is
    my name is Month ago

    Well when i was in the philippines my friends thinks that im funny until we immigrated here in canada. My life went from an annoying boy to a silent one☹☹

  • Darren Lachel
    Darren Lachel Month ago

    My GAWD! Ellen is so unfunny! Maybe if you are the type that wastes your time on daytime TV you might find her funny.

  • Cyuzuzo Alex
    Cyuzuzo Alex Month ago

    9:50 she lowkey looks like katy Perry

  • Erika Rakupi
    Erika Rakupi Month ago

    I don't get older people's humour AT ALL
    1. Don't know the context. It's a just simple question.
    2. She's just saying a fact and implying "I'm older than you."
    sooo..? Rihanna? is just laughing out of politeness or got the "good timed programmed laughter" skill.
    3. She's stuttering. She seems scared of some repercussions.
    4. The girl is bringing out a serious matter for people to reflect on with seriousness,
    and this Ellen kills her message, stops her words to reach the public
    by owning back the spotlight with a unrelated forced comparison.
    I felt that she ridiculed the girl for trying to deliver an important message.
    The girl didn't get the joke. Her adjusting clothing movement shows is trying to compensate for the little discomfort she felt.
    5. Being sick is a serious matter and if it something that doesn't heal for a long time,
    it should naturally invoke sympathetic worry for the person's suffering and hope for the person's recovery first.
    NOT making a indifferent joke of "ew, don't give it to me" plus, in reality it actually has a contagion possibility.
    So, where is the joke? The joke would be that bitch actually getting sick after that.
    Because she deserves that for being indifferent.
    Fake people have too much power.
    I learn hard to reduce it little by little.
    Wake up.

  • C'Laudel Vlz
    C'Laudel Vlz Month ago +1

    She's a bully I don't need none of this crap

  • Inas Iman
    Inas Iman Month ago

    wow, i love people who have such good ideas to help people , how did u come to the idea to make a channel like this

  • Rachel Rosen
    Rachel Rosen Month ago

    I feel like I need to start watching her show, she really is very likable. I really like her.

  • D Jango
    D Jango Month ago

    I deadly hate this evils lady

  • urmomgeylol
    urmomgeylol Month ago +2

    omg wow this lured a woman into my derelict apartment

  • A Acevedo
    A Acevedo Month ago

    Nice analysis. Ive never seen a video like this before :)

    • Charisma on Command
      Charisma on Command  28 days ago

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  • Charles Nelson
    Charles Nelson Month ago

    Very bizarre...I find Ellen shallow and repellant! (and I'm not the only one)

  • Ayyoli
    Ayyoli Month ago

    That Liza Minnelli joke was so awkward, Ellen isn’t funny few Americans in mainstream media are.

  • Cranky Knuckles
    Cranky Knuckles Month ago

    Say that to the woman that had to sit on a chair throughout almost the whole Ellen show and getting ridiculed because of her stealing extra mercs from that same show.

  • blabbermouth
    blabbermouth Month ago

    This video was way more than I expected. I subbed!

  • Jack Spratt
    Jack Spratt Month ago

    I tried some of her jokes in a bar and ended up with a black eye..........bite me

    INERT Month ago +3

    But I hate Ellen...

  • Hadouken
    Hadouken Month ago

    Ellen is a jerk and very unlikable for me

  • Lari Kipe
    Lari Kipe Month ago

    yet she is intolerant of anyone not on the far left. and that is not funny.

    DHRUV Month ago

    thats why i love ellen show. bcoz it doesn't hurt anyone

  • tj545
    tj545 Month ago

    woman are funny and smart, get over it

  • Davido Star
    Davido Star Month ago

    She’s only like this with a list celebs to regular ones she’s an absolute bitch

  • Anju Rajaraman
    Anju Rajaraman Month ago

    Loved the video !

  • Nicholas Lawrence
    Nicholas Lawrence Month ago +1

    Sorry - Ellen is not magnetic at all.
    She is a repulsive degenerate woman.

  • Chandra Simha
    Chandra Simha Month ago +2

    Ellen is really gifted with natural humour..

  • Bornik zaman arzo
    Bornik zaman arzo Month ago

    7:19 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • Rosemarie Serrano
    Rosemarie Serrano Month ago

    Well it really depends on your sense of humor,somethings are not funny for some people.

  • Jahleel Francis
    Jahleel Francis Month ago

    Thx 4 the tips

  • lucinda gaskill
    lucinda gaskill Month ago

    in the commercial, the guy in the beard - put you shirt back on !

  • Telúrico Frevens
    Telúrico Frevens Month ago

    give me back my ten minutes...

  • Yuliii Baca
    Yuliii Baca Month ago

    Tiffany Hadish

    AAA BBB Month ago

    okay, but i need i tutorial on how to make people don't like you. cuz f*** people.

  • Caleb Bunch
    Caleb Bunch Month ago

    Jokes That Make People Instantly Like You are:
    1. Self-deprecating jokes.
    2. Poking fun. People are unlikely to be insecure about things that are either temporary, common or not core to their identity, and are likely to be insecure about things that are permanent, uncommon or core to their identity.
    3. Ego boosters.
    Lessons that can make you more playful:
    1. Find a simple ritual.
    2. Move your body.
    3. Find a way to bring actual games into your interactions.