Mothers vs Daughters: Is Marriage Necessary?

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  • Jubilee
    Jubilee  Month ago +1339

    Hey everyone - thanks so much for watching this amazing conversation. Thank you to SK-II for making this episode possible! If you enjoyed this piece, be sure to check out SK-II's amazing docu-series #Timelines with Katie Couric ( that addresses pressures women face all around the world. Love you all - thanks for watching and supporting!

    • Erika Croft
      Erika Croft 8 hours ago

      A great job as always! I would love to see a behind-the scenes of the casting process. I'm really curious, as I'm sure others are!

    • Deboras Smith
      Deboras Smith Day ago


    • nala beans
      nala beans 17 days ago

      kind of ironic SKII is one of the MOST over-hyped "all the cool kids are doing it" you too should spend enormous amounts of money on products with slim to no evidence.

    • mplsridah
      mplsridah 24 days ago

      Aleesha Khan exactly. Jubilee is partnering with a brand that promotes SELF-HATE. Look it up!

    • mplsridah
      mplsridah 24 days ago

      StupidityStarbucks you would say the same if there were no blacks in the video. I guess you can say inclusion works for some, not so much for other.

  • Erika Croft
    Erika Croft 8 hours ago

    A great job as always! I would love to see a behind-the scenes of the casting process. I'm really curious, as I'm sure others are!

  • man man
    man man 9 hours ago

    All I got from the white daughters home life is that she getting it from BBC and she paying for it lol.

  • Luna Moreno
    Luna Moreno 16 hours ago

    Okay but overall this video was super wholesome because in the end all the mothers supported their daughters and understood where they were coming from.

  • Dani Alexandria
    Dani Alexandria 19 hours ago

    Can yall not just mic the person asking the questions?

  • Barney Stenson
    Barney Stenson 20 hours ago

    It's narcissistic to think only women have societal pressure to live a certain way

  • Panda God
    Panda God 20 hours ago +1

    I believe gender roles are very important but they are NOT mandatory. It's just a cultural belief. I'm Mexican and I totally believe in being a strong woman but it's not impossible to be strong and have a level of respect for yourself and your husband. It's just a moral and personal choice.

  • melanie sosa
    melanie sosa 21 hour ago

    You don’t need a stay at home mother for your children to do good. My mom worked two minimum wage jobs to be able to put clothes on our back and food on the table. If a child wants to do good, they are able to take an initiative if THEY want too.

  • kristal Perez
    kristal Perez 21 hour ago

    That was sweet

  • Jeanae Parry
    Jeanae Parry 22 hours ago

    I'm clocking Annemarie as Mormon.

  • Ke
    Ke Day ago +1

    wow I like Jewel sooo much! Wish she were my mom

  • Mini Cameron
    Mini Cameron Day ago +1


  • Peasant Things
    Peasant Things Day ago

    people without vs with children

  • M. Morales
    M. Morales Day ago

    I think the stereotypes surrounding marrige are very facinating, but I've never experienced them.
    My dad has always been the one to cook our dinner, to stay at home and take care of us, and my mother is the one making all the money. And I've never thought of that as odd, but watching this I realise it's not the "norm".

  • Taz D
    Taz D Day ago

    Chelsie seems like a lovely person

  • unshellHER
    unshellHER Day ago

    Afrika’s voice is so soothing lol 💕

  • Meghan Dunning
    Meghan Dunning Day ago

    I fought to get my tubal at 25. Nothing wrong with it. Congrats on Afrika for choosing it. Not everyone wants to have kids and carrying a baby inside you sucks and yes you have to give up your life when you have kids and it sucks sometimes. Other times it's awesome having kids but overall...
    If you can go without kids do it. LIVE.

  • Roma Martinez
    Roma Martinez Day ago +1

    Annemarie is literally the sweetest women ever.

  • lil fox
    lil fox Day ago

    When Annemarie don't work how will she get pension?
    Do Amerikans get pension? 🤔
    And just in case they get divorced how does it work for her to earn a living when she didn't work for over 20 years? (it is not very likely but still)

  • Leslie Blake
    Leslie Blake Day ago

    All the mums are amazing! But, Cassandra mum is the sweetest person ever!!!!!!

  • DaChun G
    DaChun G Day ago +2

    Afrika’s voice should replace siri. Way to calm.

  • David Hernandez
    David Hernandez Day ago +3

    ok, we got the female perspective now the dads and sons.

  • Sabrina Applevong

    Damn everyone is coming after Annemarie. Chill. Her expressing concern is a completely normal and motherly thing to say to someone making a big decision like that. Regardless of her getting married younger, times and expectations were different then and people in their 20s were at way different places in life. She wasn't being vicious or mean whatsoever.

  • Collin Babin
    Collin Babin Day ago

    1:27 GAMER TIME

  • Barbara Negrao
    Barbara Negrao Day ago

    “children do better when their mom is at home and taking on the traditional role” oh no baby what is you DOIN

  • Creative Ameena
    Creative Ameena Day ago

    my heart 🥺🥺 this video was so fulfilling and one of my favorites, the understanding wow

  • MJ
    MJ Day ago

    You can do whatever you wanna do, but Y’all talking like marriage and getting your tubes tied are the same thing, when divorce exists vs. no physically possible way to restore your tubes??? Very different, would definitely wait until 35 for that.

  • Reyna
    Reyna Day ago

    I hate how people nowadays see getting married as a chore. I see being married as being with your best friend 24/7 "getting married young is like leaving the party early" why though? Why can't you stay at the party with your s/o and have an even better time

  • Olivia S.
    Olivia S. 2 days ago

    I’ve know for a while that if I have children, they’ll be adopted. I’ve heard stories of women who wanted to get they’re tubes tied but doctors refused to do the operation because they weren’t married, or required permission from their partner. I was very surprised that Afrika found a doctor that would do the procedure when she is in her 20s. Why should anyone have a say about what a women does with her body. It’s like the issue with abortion. Why do people feel they are entitled to an opinion on whether or not a woman gets her tubes tied, or gets an abortion?

  • ci rob
    ci rob 2 days ago +1

    That's why the generation is falling apart and becoming corrupt and sinful, further away from god, they are turning away from gods commandments , it's all about materialistic values rather than spiritual values , society and the media play a huge role in this generation , the reason for this is because of the separation of the church from the state so the traditional /morality/gods laws isnt implemented and mans desires and sins are put forth and practiced ,this is what's causing the fall of society

  • lol dei wtf
    lol dei wtf 2 days ago +7

    “One child just to experience it” it’s as if she’s treating a child like sky diving or flying out of the country 🤨

  • So Majesticals
    So Majesticals 2 days ago

    There’s nothing wrong with motherhood. But it should be a facet of femininity rather than the definition of it.

  • idk what ever
    idk what ever 2 days ago

    Ya and men don't have to live up to a surten awhay that have to look, sit,act,ect

  • Madison Mandel
    Madison Mandel 2 days ago

    Some women just aren’t meant to be moms

  • U A
    U A 2 days ago

    I lovedd this episode 🙏🏿😭😭

  • Amy Archer
    Amy Archer 2 days ago

    I guess I’m just traditional. I want to get married and have children. It’s something I actually desire. Thinking about that part of my future makes me really happy. I also want to be able to be fully independent. Which is why I’m on the path to becoming a doctor.

  • Reggy Fields
    Reggy Fields 2 days ago

    Maybe it’s just me (my opinion) but Annemarie is so weak and old school it’s sad to see but I guess it works for her. I wish she wouldn’t expect that for others tho

  • Dexter Vlash
    Dexter Vlash 2 days ago

    Afrika's Mom's views of men and "their jobs" is what's dividing men and women today. I think that should also be a show if it's already not one.

  • Chris Parsons
    Chris Parsons 2 days ago +3

    For the millionth time, why can we not get a microphone for the announcer?!

  • JasMontrell
    JasMontrell 2 days ago +1

    Chelsie saying Afrika is all knowing was the ultimate statement of me throwing my phone 📱😵

  • Rayndom Nayme
    Rayndom Nayme 2 days ago

    Why do people keep commenting about adoption like it’s the same thing. The cognitive dissonance is unbelievable.

  • CC
    CC 2 days ago

    With corporations taking over, rampant social media, increased materialism and destruction of the environment I just cannot bring a child into the world.

  • Evangeline Eden
    Evangeline Eden 2 days ago +1

    I would really like to see what the young women’s lives will be like in their 30s and up; did they get married and have kids orrrrr no?

  • Mardo
    Mardo 2 days ago

    outstanding episode, but i really do support taking on the male perspective too!

  • Sammi Frombp
    Sammi Frombp 2 days ago +4

    She doesn't know their finances. How does she know he ain't spending money on a condo with a 22 year old gf

  • CassssssyD Baddiiiiiie
    CassssssyD Baddiiiiiie 2 days ago +1

    This was so beautifully wholesome.

  • Karlie Starr
    Karlie Starr 2 days ago

    It really disheartened me to hear some of these mothers say that having children is one of the most important things about being a woman :(.

  • Karlie Starr
    Karlie Starr 2 days ago

    "What do you know when you're 25" EXACTLY!! So why are you forcing something down your child's throat that takes HUGE responsibility when you barely figured out who you are yet?.

  • Kit Moira
    Kit Moira 3 days ago

    I'm 19 and very old fashioned. My whole life I've wanted a husband and my own family. So much so I would make myself sick thinking I'll never have kids or I'll never find someone that would be willing to help and support me.. Hearing that other women are giving that up really truly breaks my heart. I've now realized my bestfriend of 12 years now has the same goals and views as me. We're getting married this weekend and I can't put in words this peace I have knowing I'm on the road to something I've been working for for so long.

  • •Infinite Hype•
    •Infinite Hype• 3 days ago +1

    This comment section is filled with so many great quotes

  • olivia williams
    olivia williams 3 days ago +1

    8:45 I swear everybody has an aunt or uncle like that and I love it

  • Natalie Chica
    Natalie Chica 3 days ago

    excuse me, you are a white woman with blonde hair, a houswife, wearing pink, and your name is annemarie. stfu

  • Natalie Lenthall
    Natalie Lenthall 3 days ago

    The younger girls’ opinions on the topic are much more logical and reasonable than a lot of the mother’s. A lot of their ideas are so dated, life should evolve.

  • Madita E
    Madita E 3 days ago +1

    This may be off-topic but africas voice is so so beautiful. I was just listening while drawing and I was so touched by her soft voice and way of speaking

  • Eva Hale
    Eva Hale 3 days ago

    They chose three women with really flaky careers. Like they're all dancers and bloggers and whatnot, I wish at least one of them had a serious job so that they could have explored the idea of kids vs careers a bit more.

  • beatriz cbs
    beatriz cbs 3 days ago +2

    afrika’s voice is so soothing it’s amazing

    • Afrika Bakenra
      Afrika Bakenra 2 days ago

      beatriz cbs Thank you! Feel free to check out my demos and guided meditations 😌❤️🙏🏾

  • Beverly Grimmett
    Beverly Grimmett 3 days ago +1

    I love the understanding established by the end...
    I've been married twice and never married my son's father - THANK GOODNESS! Do these women not know of abuse. It took me 3+ years to realize my son's father was an alcoholic and bi-polar and I was fighting a losing battle and I had to leave. I tried to get him to get help, but he's an adult and makes his own decisions and for 3 months he never got better, and it got scary and I feared for my life and I left with our son over 6 years ago. I have been single ever since.
    My second husband I was with for almost 10 years, and he kept putting off having kids. I was always ready and he was always ready with an excuse. And I wanted a family with the first guy, but turns out he wanted a life full of material things with no children. So not sure why the moms feel the way they do, but they need to stop and I think a lot of them are jealous because they didn't get to do and be all the things their kids are...

  • Sijaku shinai
    Sijaku shinai 3 days ago

    I wish I were able to have such conversation with mom

  • Sijaku shinai
    Sijaku shinai 3 days ago +1

    I don’t know why I want give the blonde girl a big hug 💚 idk she made feel like she really needed a hug while she was talking about her life

    • Chelsie Ande
      Chelsie Ande 2 days ago

      Sijaku shinai Thank you for the kind words, Sijaku!

  • Bryce Hopkins
    Bryce Hopkins 3 days ago

    Can you please do one that is father and son