My Friends Were With Me For My Money

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    This is Britney. She’s a lucky person - she comes from a very wealthy family. But she’s not here to boast. Unfortunately, everyone has their problems, and hers are no less significant than anyone else’s. Her biggest problem is finding friends, and this is the reason why.
    Britney doesn’t think that she’s arrogant, or a snob, or whatever it is that people think about kids from rich families. Her dad is a very simple person, a self-made-man, and he wants his children to work their own way through life too. That doesn’t mean that they have strict limitations on using money - his belief is that they need to invest their time and effort in studying, and should work like everyone else who is not as lucky as they are. That’s why they have always lived a pretty simple life - not in some mansion, but in an ordinary house. Their dad also insisted that they go to an ordinary school, not some fancy private one.
    When Britney was a child, she didn’t even notice the difference between herself and other children. They all shared the same studies and hobbies. She’s a very sociable person, so she didn’t have problems finding friends. But when she became a teenager and went to high school, she noticed that things had changed. Everyone was divided into groups and ranks - it was not just one big group of children anymore. She didn’t like the idea of classifying people, but you have to adapt in order to enjoy life.
    Since she is quite easy-going, she ended up in the “celeb” group. This wasn’t her goal, of course, but she was at a new school and she just wanted to make friends. They came to her and proposed that she hang out with them - why would she say no? They seemed like really nice people. They chatted a lot about designer clothes and gadgets, and all the other things that are trendy nowadays. This was when she found out that they had somehow already learned about who she was and what family she was from - and Britney began to have doubts. She’s not a fool, and she understands that sometimes people can be guided by self-interest when choosing friends.
    She started watching her new friends attentively. Her dad had taught her that you should always check people out before trusting them, even if she had never been in a situation where she’d been right to mistrust people before. But everything seemed okay. It was quite a large group of people - there were eight of them - and they all had different backgrounds. They were regular people with different personalities - that’s ok then, she thought. They spent a lot of time together, and met outside school as well, and as time passed she didn’t notice any particular interest in her family’s wealth.
    When things started changing, she didn’t even notice at first. From time to time when they went out, one or two of her friends asked her to pay for their movie tickets or a coffee, and promised to give back the money. They never gave it back, and she thought it was a bit petty to remind them. Then...their ‘appetites’ started growing. Sometimes they asked her to pay for a round of bowling or a coffee for everyone. She didn’t think it was fair, but they were her friends and she thought it was shameful to quarrel over money. Britney became irritated by the situation, and started thinking: “What if they made friends with me only because of my money? What if they don’t even really like me?”
    At some point, thinking these kinds of thoughts over again and again leads you to paranoia. She wanted to check if they really liked just her money or her. She already had trust issues, and thought that it would be better to be alone than with friends like that. So one day she met up with them and pretended to be all sad, saying that they had financial problems at home - that her dad had lost his business and that he had cut her pocket money drastically. She saw them exchange glances but they didn’t say anything. Everything continued as normal and she had already begun to calm down, but when they decided to go to the cinema, she asked someone to pay for her. “I’m broke”, she said, “sorry guys, I’ll give it back as soon as I can”. They exchanged glances again. Then one of her supposed friends said: “Look, we’re not as rich as you are and we can’t sponsor you, sorry. Maybe it’d be better if you go another time”.
    That was it. Now she knew! How could she even think that someone could be disinterested in her family’s money! She was staring at their backs as they were walking away feeling so disappointed, and she didn’t notice that Lea was still standing by her side. She asked if Britney needed help. “Do you need to talk? I understand it can be hard”. She offered to pay for her as they went to get a coffee. She thanked Lea from the bottom of her heart, because she had restored her faith in people. They’ve been best friends ever since, and she never went back to the ‘celeb’ group.
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  • Ahmad Malika
    Ahmad Malika Day ago

    I have enough money to live a goid life

  • Some Person.
    Some Person. Day ago

    It's called mooching off your wealth or being gold diggers.

  • Corey Maple
    Corey Maple Day ago

    Yeah I kind of do you have trust issues to like this one time like my friend and he just does stuff without even telling me like one time I am is talking one time I was a little kid and I and I was just giving schoolyard is key to hit me with his belt and I thought was kind of messed up I told the teacher and not the teacher but the lunch lady and she didn't do nothing it was kind of mad that mad but they're all the kids to cheer me up and just make me happy and I even went to the nurse's just minor injuries I guess so that's why I left that's why I lost every day because they didn't really do anything about it I like believing they didn't do nothing so that's why I went to Agoura

  • LowkeyCee PLayz
    LowkeyCee PLayz Day ago

    I have a good amount of friends 5 friends to be precise...
    My school has a money machine were you put money onto your finger.
    I usually have around £10 or £20 on my finger while my friends usually have around £5 or sometimes none at all. Bare in mind that my money will last me for around 2 weeks.
    One time my friend had no money so i bought her some food to eat. Once became 5 times , 5 times now became an obsession.
    Day in day out its money money money. So it was PE after break and we always buy water bottles. She asked if i could buy her a bottle i just kept quiet. Then my other friend aaliyah asked for a water bottle then my friend maggie asked for food. i looked at them all like i was gonna slap sense into there heads. Violence is NOT the answer so i kept quite then they kept begging and begging untill i said fine and walked up to the woman at the till. i said "can i have a peach flavoured water bottle , a large plain water (for me) and a strawberry flavoured plz?" The till woman said "sorry i dont have the peach or strawberry flavoured water but i do have the plain large water." I said "can i just have the large plain water please?" She gave me it and i walked away.I went and apologised to them all they looked at me and smiled 2 of the girls that asked me said "Look chloe dont worry about it ill fill up my water bottle" I said thanks.The bell rings and its time to head to the pe department. My other friend who didn't look as happy looked at me with a dirty look and stormed off saying u didnt get me a drink and i just rolled my eyes. We stopped talking. Funny thing is whenever me and my friends were talking and laughing and roasting a meme the friend who stormed off said to me as we getting changed " Your the one who is poor and cant afford to buy anything so u cant say much" i just said "look i wasnt talking to you i was talking to my friends. Why have you started hating me just because i didnt get u a drink? im sorry u cant use my money anymore and have to go around bribing friends thats probably why you dont have enough money to spend on food cause your too busy buying FRIENDS." The whole changing room went quite and clapped.
    i guess thats my story..

  • game mods
    game mods Day ago

    omg what a nerd they just needed a little help they didnt think that they would hurt you with that

  • Nolmart Maridor Gimeno

    MY FRIENDS USED ME FOR MY MONEY


    friend: you always complain that you’re bro-
    Me: *AcTuaLLY hAPPenEd*

  • The gal on fire
    The gal on fire Day ago

    She *_Y E E T E D_* those friends out of her life

  • Natalie Thagard
    Natalie Thagard Day ago

    I’m in fifth and life is like high school no joke they cuss like reallyyy bad and not just the f word and stuff but really bad and people act like they are 16 no joke and I like to play jump rope lol

  • Grey MSP
    Grey MSP Day ago

    *asks to pay for a cup of coffee*
    *THEIR AFTER MY MONEY*
    *cant pay for her ticket and gives a reasonable explanation*
    *OML IM GONNA EXPOSE THEM OMG OMG I KNEW IT*

  • Gifted Thrower70

    Its britney bitch

  • Daya&Bear Paige&Milo

    I only have one friend and right now we are ping through complicated times .....

  • Philip Okey
    Philip Okey Day ago

    I hate people who only what to be our friend for your money they are just a lot of beaches

  • Dini dini
    Dini dini Day ago

    She not rich in another vid she said they lived paycheck to paycheck

  • small autistic boy

    haha, this actually happened

  • Menahil Khan
    Menahil Khan Day ago

    Hi this really happend to me its not that bad but I kinda drownded I'll just share my story I am 8 and I went to a pool I didint know the ft so I thought it was 3 ft because it looked shallow buy I did ask someone if its deep or not she said its 3 ft so I went down the slide and drownded my sister saved me which I'm thankful for but my nose was clogged and so were my ears so I'm okay now.

  • Elijah Duran
    Elijah Duran Day ago

    Not all people are wanting money some see friends more that money

  • Mr Lichaev
    Mr Lichaev Day ago

    Unfortunately, this happened to me when I had a life changing accident some of my best friends turned their backs on me.

  • XxAliPlaysxX YT
    XxAliPlaysxX YT Day ago

    I got depressed



    ACTUALLY HAPPENED

  • kingston jiang
    kingston jiang Day ago

    I fell like my friend are using me just bc of my money bc they would always ask me $1or $2

  • pink forever
    pink forever Day ago

    Some people have problems staying alive and your complaining about have problems with friends because your rich witch by the way almost everybody in high school has problems with friends stop complaining about being rich a lot of us have those problems with friends too you know (I don’t mean to make a haters comment or anything that’s just my opinion)

  • Annie Rose x
    Annie Rose x Day ago

    I have a friend called Chloe and I swear she is only my friend because of my money and I hate it

  • Bluury
    Bluury Day ago

    I play roblox and this girl gets mad when I can’t buy her robux and I cried one day it was horrible but I never bought her any bc I didn’t want to

  • Kawaii Nugget
    Kawaii Nugget Day ago

    _i failed my test._


    *ACTUALLY HAPPENED*

  • Randy Duquene
    Randy Duquene Day ago

    That’s a pretty small problem ngl

  • Rama diab
    Rama diab Day ago

    I guess I have the same problem I found out that one of my Friends take money from me daily to buy food and she have money like seriously I take five dollars from my parentsand she take $10 from her parents and she come and say that she have no money I saw her once and then when She asked me again for moneyI said that I don’t have money anymore to give you

  • Mr
    Mr Day ago

    Lia
    Is
    Amazing
    (Just like Sia 🙂)

  • S
    S Day ago +1

    that‘s so relatable ugh

  • Garfield 360
    Garfield 360 Day ago

    wow I feel bad ur friends are gold diggers they only want your money

  • Black Rośe
    Black Rośe Day ago

    I can relate to this story so much cuz all my friends care about is my money

  • ;3
    ;3 Day ago

    me when my friend wants to borrow a pen

  • Ydelle Helaena Martinez

    My old friend used me for money too
    So i think i will never talk to her again

  • Alot of topics
    Alot of topics Day ago

    1:13 ....harry potter, Jocks....

  • Shook af Gurl
    Shook af Gurl Day ago

    I feel u sis

  • super girl 😘
    super girl 😘 Day ago +1

    I am rich and my friends are also using me for money they always say that I need money I want money I return it to you tomorrow but they always lied and I can't say no because I am not a confident girl and my friends was so confident what should I do I am just so upset 😖😖???

  • Angelica Evans
    Angelica Evans 2 days ago

    When I buy lunch my friend asked me if I had money so they could buy a cookie and my other friend if I have a quarter and I was going to use it for my money like it’s my money why would she ask me why all my friends like this like it’s so weird

  • Yolopapi
    Yolopapi 2 days ago

    Bruh Ramen noodles are expensive for me

  • Baby Alive Lover 222

    I used to have trust issues with a girl named Rosie and she was nice at first then she got mean and then became nice out of no where and we are good friends now.

  • Catherine Freitag
    Catherine Freitag 2 days ago

    I'm good with money so she need keep her money in the shcool

  • Micah Lopez
    Micah Lopez 2 days ago

    I’m rich to but I have normal clothes and not even one of my friends visited my house🤯🤯🤯

  • Millie cute fox O
    Millie cute fox O 2 days ago

    At least one of them are nice

  • HUNTER - Gaming
    HUNTER - Gaming 2 days ago

    sad

  • David Jessee
    David Jessee 2 days ago +1

    If I am in high school right now and if I was in high school I would’ve been like no you’re just using me to get my money

  • Garrett Mangosong
    Garrett Mangosong 2 days ago

    My friends relied on me to “help them with homework” (give answers) but when we played basketball, they wouldn’t pass the ball just because I couldn’t shoot.

  • Lps Goldenstone
    Lps Goldenstone 2 days ago

    I have trust issues bc I’ve been scammed eight times EIGHT times on a game

    And ALL the items were like super beta
    Beta means waaaaaayyyy more than rare 😔

  • Marie Butron
    Marie Butron 2 days ago

    How about you have a bossy friend and then if you make mistakes that they don’t like they will get mad on me but if they did that and bully me it’s ok for me because when I argue at them they always have a reason. The thing that I don’t want to happen is lose my friend even though they are treating me like slave.😔😔

  • Saniya O’Neal
    Saniya O’Neal 2 days ago

    I had these two friends who only wanted me because I was the popular girl

  • Peachy Cream
    Peachy Cream 2 days ago

    I have trust problems sorry I can’t spell well only a little I have dis-lex-eu

  • Evan Risman - Minecraft and Vlogs

    *Mr Krabs has entered the chat*
    *Squidward has left the chat*

  • Abdifath Abdi
    Abdifath Abdi 2 days ago

    That Is called being jelos

  • Reagan Butcher
    Reagan Butcher 2 days ago

    Yes I have trust issues with adult black people but I don't want to share my feelings about them.

  • Gay.x
    Gay.x 2 days ago

    I'm a greaser same thing but poor

  • PAN kiwi brehovsky
    PAN kiwi brehovsky 2 days ago

    My friend IS using me for pc 💻😥😫😓😭😭😭😭😭😭 And i dont have more friends 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • Kat Addict
    Kat Addict 2 days ago

    i have a issue i dont trust fortnite

  • AbelSuperstar100
    AbelSuperstar100 2 days ago

    Gold diggas

  • Mike Roberts
    Mike Roberts 2 days ago

    I have trust issues with my friend Adele

  • Kenisha Guy
    Kenisha Guy 2 days ago

    im a nerd

  • Daniel Perez
    Daniel Perez 2 days ago

    I can relate

  • aleka paco
    aleka paco 2 days ago

    *it's bRITNEY BITCH!!!*

  • Green Tea
    Green Tea 2 days ago

    Your friends were a bunch of filthy yellow bellied *COMMIES!!*

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  • ضوء القمر
    ضوء القمر 2 days ago

    It brings my case closer 💔

  • Blackops 567777777
    Blackops 567777777 2 days ago

    A male gold digger,



    please...

  • marvin llarina
    marvin llarina 3 days ago

    I wish all have the same friends as Leah

  • Gamer lovers
    Gamer lovers 3 days ago

    Same as my life 😢😢😢😢

  • Violet
    Violet 3 days ago

    white, rich people problems

  • Unknown Kitten :3
    Unknown Kitten :3 3 days ago

    I have lots of plush and my friend always would take it and say no I did not steal it

  • Zyahria Jones
    Zyahria Jones 3 days ago

    I do have trust issues

  • UnicornHeart Girl
    UnicornHeart Girl 3 days ago

    I do

  • Infamous 48
    Infamous 48 3 days ago

    gg to leah

  • Nate Futrell
    Nate Futrell 3 days ago

    Cope with life bitch

  • Flutter Yuuki
    Flutter Yuuki 3 days ago

    That way I'm afraid to get super rich.
    I don't know Who to trust

  • Randeep
    Randeep 3 days ago

    Same problem but after they saw my house they called me posh boy i wasn’t really gloaty but they didn’t stop

  • Demolished Cookie
    Demolished Cookie 3 days ago +1

    Ok my friends they come over my house to play on my ps4 and pc

  • Enchanted Wig
    Enchanted Wig 3 days ago

    I’m broke
    Like I put the b in broke so I don’t have any money for my friends 😂

  • Shafay Shaikh
    Shafay Shaikh 3 days ago +2

    When I was like 9 years old. I bought lunch for my friend everyday who was not like my best friend but a famous boy in class. I never thought of why I was doing it and when he left school. He never even contacted me. Now I look back and think how dumb I was and he was just taking advantage of my money. *Just think clearly and see who are your real friends and who are there for you when you need them. Don't make the same mistake I did.*

  • Destini Austin
    Destini Austin 3 days ago

    Leah is a real/true friend

  • Hannah Fuller
    Hannah Fuller 3 days ago

    *Can't Relate*

  • JTS 21
    JTS 21 3 days ago

    This story is so TRUE.

  • My little World
    My little World 3 days ago

    I have a feeling my friend kaylie is useing me for money bc always wants money from me bc she says that she forgot her lunch money
    EVERY.SINGLE.TIME.

  • 2027 - Rainey Ruf
    2027 - Rainey Ruf 3 days ago

    shes so pretty

  • HyP3Astro Zz
    HyP3Astro Zz 3 days ago

    Gold Diggers

  • Cypher Cynical
    Cypher Cynical 3 days ago

    My dads a doctor and my moms an ambassador but they don’t give me no pocket money and who calls it pocket money this ain’t no England rebublic

  • Davionna Evans
    Davionna Evans 3 days ago

    her friends are gold digger

  • Tyler York
    Tyler York 3 days ago

    My experience with friends that don't have a lot is that they always make sure the other ones are taken care of when the do have. It's that if I'm eating you're eating thing. Blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

  • Jonathan W.
    Jonathan W. 3 days ago +3

    Money? more like,


    I DONT HAVE.

  • Ghaith Shadi
    Ghaith Shadi 3 days ago

    I would go to them and kicked their ass

  • Lazari Gacha
    Lazari Gacha 3 days ago

    Girl **** those players!
    They just want to use people!

  • Nomhle Njezula
    Nomhle Njezula 3 days ago

    Hey it's anne- Marie my friend also used to beg me for my money all the DAM time.

  • ha ha
    ha ha 3 days ago

    it’s britney bitch

  • Praharsha Gopanapalli
    Praharsha Gopanapalli 3 days ago +1

    Aw I feel bad for her we should find some friends that accepts her no matter what!

  • TheBoxingSimulator //RileyTBS

    I have some issues through trusting. One day I was playing with my “best” friend during a sunny day until my best,best friend came by and my “best” friend walked up to him and slapped him. I was like “WHAT IS WROMG WITH YOU PEOPLE THESE DAYS?!” and I slapped my “best” friend back. We broke into a fight and he blamed me because I “started” it. I am no longer his friend now. Everybody stayed away from me for some time and I felt isolated from everyone. My best,best friend comforted me though. And yeah,my “best” friend is not my friend no more!

  • Antonio Antepuesto
    Antonio Antepuesto 3 days ago

    I guess the unlikes are gold diggers

  • Sherry Ellison
    Sherry Ellison 3 days ago

    😐😑😐😕 I don't understand anymore

  • Kayano ZenSenpai
    Kayano ZenSenpai 3 days ago

    I'm also rich but whenever i gave my friend a little money EVERYONE yes everyone will go toward to me and they wanted my money same as my classmate too except the my half Japanese half filipino classmate he's also rich nobody towards him just me all i wanted is normal

  • Isha x
    Isha x 3 days ago

    I am not rich rich but im greatfull and love my friends ; annie,jaz x

  • ahmadwahidgaming
    ahmadwahidgaming 4 days ago +1

    These are not called friends its called gold diggers

  • Ameya Gawde
    Ameya Gawde 4 days ago

    Money doesn't make you lose friends, it makes you realize who your real friends are.

  • Jacob Laguerre
    Jacob Laguerre 4 days ago

    Leah's probably using you for money 2, but just was smarter about it. You don't have a great personality. Stalking and filtering your friends?!

  • Gacha Fox Lol
    Gacha Fox Lol 4 days ago

    In 3rd grade my Bff didn’t act like one starting 4th grade she acted more like a Bff