What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang
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- Published on Jan 5, 2017
- Jia Jiang adventures boldly into a territory so many of us fear: rejection. By seeking out rejection for 100 days -- from asking a stranger to borrow $100 to requesting a "burger refill" at a restaurant -- Jiang desensitized himself to the pain and shame that rejection often brings and, in the process, discovered that simply asking for what you want can open up possibilities where you expect to find dead ends.
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Rejection hurts because it makes us doubt ourselves but the worst thing is ‘inaction’. As long as you are moving forward, you are doing ok.
Moving forward like the legend himself Eren Eager heeee
Tatakae
Yes, doing nothing is worse, but it is important to learn from the pain, so that it doesn't happen again! If we reject our pain, we will seek pleasure elsewhere but we will never actually understand/fix the pain that was initially there. Make sure you learn, understand why you were rejected and THEN move on :)
@Someone Was looking for a TATAKAE!
@i dont simp Lol. She was a girl.
Im gonna ask for a burger refill at every burger place now. Thank you
Um, try something original like a second, free happy ending.
@Alfredo Humberto geez - that went over your head didn't it?.. thats the point of the comment
@JC Morton That's not how refill works
Did one finally give you one? It'd be great if your journey ends with a place actually giving you a free one.
thats a great thought of buliding ur self good luck
Yes, yes and double yes!
Here's a little story from my life:
When I was 17, I was the most bullied kied in school - BY FAR!
I then saw that something like a community on that new platform called "TheXvid" was building. (It was 2010)
So I also started making videos....
I got laughed at by a couple of HUNDREDS of students EVERY DAY...but I didnt quit. I thought: "When you all hate me anyways, there's no point in quitting."
5 years later I had one of the most successful TheXvid channels in Germany. (It's this one :) )
Then I retired from beeing a TheXvidr and started as a consultant for social media strategies in 2017.
I got rejected exactly 68 times until I signed my first customer for 200$ (lol).
Today I have clients all over the world. (Silicon Valley, Atlanta, Berlin,...you name it)
Don't let rejection define you. It is nothing personal.
In fact, If I would not have been rejected that often, I would not have known what my niche target group even needs...I would just sit there and call myself a failure all the time.
From the greatest rejection comes the greatest reaction
69th times the charm, eh? 😏
Wow
people who reject you actually project their flaws onto you
Hope god bless you🙏
Notes:
- Don't run in the face of rejection, sit through and experience it.
- Address any concerns the other person may have, and they will feel more comfortable with you. (ex: "Is that weird?")
@Wille k I am currently taking college classes, let's see how it goes, first social science went really nice.
@Blizzard I get the part of the degree, but the long term relationship I dont know, will it kinda be of a distraction?
@Once Upon a Revenant you shouldn't have did it highschool you should somehow go and get a degree if you want a long term relationship
@carochan86 I might try an associate on art, if that doesn't work I can always go for a trade skill
@Once Upon a Revenant hopefully through different jobs you can narrow down your passion. Also not all jobs need college.
Please also take note of this lesson he imparted: “And then, I learned I could fulfill my life dream by asking.” That is an underrated statement. Learning how to advocate for yourself, because you know you deserve the best is a very important life skill.
@Joe Bloggs A more apt and realistic way to put it would be "you deserve the best results your efforts can give you"
@Gennaro Russo the best means it's something better than everybody else gets or has gotten. Everybody can't have the best, if everybody had it then it would be average... the average is never the best by definition.
@Joe Bloggs I didn't say otherwise. "You deserve the best" shouldn't be the same as "I should get whatever I want without proving myself".
@Gennaro Russo I was replying to the comment and not the video. "You deserve the best" is bullshit losers say to themselves and become jealous of everybody else. The truth is, you deserve whatever you earn, and it's based on how much effort you put in. If you think "You deserve the best" by default, then why even work? You should just be given everything for free if you deserve the best.
@Joe Bloggs the key point is that he advocated for himself while also really trying to give his best. You can see it pretty clearly in the videos he posted: in the doughnut one he asks expecting a "no" and was caught by surprise when the cashier actually helped him. That probably helped him a lot to see his goal: not asking absurd requests and doing nothing about it but asking weird questions and backing his requests with his own capabilities. Like what happened with the lesson in University, where he came prepared with Powerpoints and everything. I hope I explained myself as English is not my first language.
This talk is so amazing! I laughed the entire time but then I cried at the end because I realized how much Ive let my fear of rejection control my life. I felt overwhelmed thinking of the instances Ive let my fear stop me from chasing my dreams. I intend to take back control of my life. Thank you for this life changing talk!
@Five o’clock pervert facts
I feel you! Been there and still are I think, but we are improving :)
@Five o’clock pervert Honestly I thought the same but if it motivates people that's cool
You can!!!!!!
You can do it 💪💯🔥🔥🔥
damn this guy really made a career out of being rejected.
he needs to go talk to all the simps in the e-girls twitch chats.
🤣🤣
@Ben Kleschinsky nope didnt even know he had one
Lmaoooo
Anyone remember watching his TheXvid channel back in the day?
"Most successful people do not let rejection define them. They let their reaction to rejection define themselves." Amazing TEDTalk!
Don't let rejections define you;
Let your reaction towards a rejection define you;
Wowwww. The best talk I have listened to. Thank you so much Jia.
wow i've watched a lot of ted talks and this is my favorite one. he's so genuine, his story is so relatable and i want a burger refill
@Flipsey I'm rejecting your comment....Only 10 days to go now!!!
@Flipsey me too
Better to demand a million dollars from a Billionaire, that way, if just one of them go through...you'll be rich and a drug addict one year after...
We did rejection challenges.
You killed me at burger refill 🤣🤣🤣
Saw this video recently.
I went down to a local bar and drank a couple of beers, then before leaving I asked to speak to the manager and I told him how much I liked the placed and asked if he could give me beer on the house...
No joke he actually brought me a beer on the house!
Thank you Jia Jiang for the burger refill idea, it may not work on burgers, but it certainly worked with beer.
One of the nicest and very engaging TEDx talks I've heard recently. The way he uses those anecdotes to drive home his point is absolutely brilliant. I'm positive that many people will find this talk helpful.
i don’t remember exactly how many times i’ve watched this ted talk but it still inspires me and give me the power to overcome and deal with rejection in life as the very first time i saw it on TheXvid. Tbh i’m just an English learner and consider Ted as an English learning source but this talk really does me wonders and motivate me to reach out to others alike videos. So appreciate for this guy’s humor and talent 👏
@Nguyễn Thu Trang Thank you! 🙏
Thank you so much, your comment really made my day. As never in my life did I expect to be given such a wonderful thing from people I don't know. So now I can be more confident in my ability and keep moving forward on my learning journeys. I also hope that you will be successful in whatever paths you choose to follow.
Your English is pretty good! Congrats on coming this far on your learning journey. I'd love to know more languages besides just English, so it's nice to see someone else achieve proficiency at it
I have been afraid of rejection my whole life , and I was aware of this but only now I realized how much this fear prevented me from benefiting from so many opportunities...
I mean.. I would always avoid any situation where there is a slight chance of putting myself in a position where I might be rejected.. this shaped my life and strongly affected my personality
This has to be changed...
@pinkroses
Yeah true... parents must encourage their kids to explore life...
But there is a fine tuning between this and letting them do whatever they want with no guidance...
Parenting looks hard tbh :)
I think this also has to do with parenting. A lot of parents are fear based and try to warn their kids to only go on the path they say otherwise they will fail. This causes people to grow up and either do what they are told, be fearful of others and other paths, or stay stagnant in fear of doing something because doing nothing keeps them safe.
6 years old he walked out of a classroom crying from rejection
30 years old he walked out of a classroom crying from acceptance
@Dante Toshiro64 lol sorry and your your welcome.
crying out of joy
@ciaran Well then that is your sister. But don't assume that everyone is like that. I am not for example.
@emi knapheide my own siter said women wanted to be treated mean. Theyll respect their boyfriends more
A little context some people might not know about: South east asian countries and china in particular value group cohesion and and the oppinion of others very much.
This must have truly been a traumatic experience for little Jia
Try adoption for a rejection trauma... consider it... if you can...
truly one of the most inspiring 15 mins ive ever had. Ive found myself trying to explain this ted talk to people multiple times. I havent necessarily embraced it - im still afraid of rejection - but it has impacted me profoundly in that I keep coming back to it. I will get there!
You probably know this, but it's okay that you're still afraid. I don't think fear actually goes away, instead what I think happens is that you gain the confidence to overcome it. So as you said, you will get there! Just keep trying your best!
This was so inspirational, I really needed this at this point of my life
hands down one of the best ted talks ever, dudes so genuine in his approach, and funny. good job!
This is possibly one of the most inspiring ted talks I've ever seen.
for sure
It's probably because it's a very relevant problem, and he has very good teaching skills.
100% Agreed.
the best one ever i was so hooked kept on repeating some words .... didnt think so many would agree with me
Agreed! I loved it!
This was fantastic thank you so much Jia Jiang! I will put this into practice I'm tired of being terrified of rejection 🙌🏼
Some years ago this guy taught me to actually get out there and start asking questions boldly. It was a skill i needed at the time. After thinking about this video some, i decided to imitate it. It lead me to finally start my business.
Thank you, Jia Jiang, and TED, for having him.
Thank you for the refreshing talk! I have always observed that if I knock the door multiple times when I really wanted something, I have always got what I wanted. But I keep forgetting it due to that 6 year old child that kept getting rejected in childhood. We really need to suppress that pessimistic child in us and get the optimistic child out.
This is an eye opening talk. I ran away several times with my fear of rejection. Now I know it doesnt hurt to at least ask what I want. Thank you so much.8
I'll never forget being 8 yrs old in the drive-thru w/ my dad telling me that rejection is nothing to be afraid of (he IS an amazing salesperson), and then proving it by asking for a FREE large order of fries at the drive-thru speaker at McDonalds. He joked with the cashier for a second, then asked again. She laughed and said "I don't think that's possible," and my father said, "We would love it if you could do it!" and pulled forward.
What do ya know...the girl hands us our order. NO fries. Then she turns to grab something else...THE BIGGEST BAG OF FRENCH FRIES I'VE EVER SEEN. It was. an. entire. bag. of. fries. All these employees start laughing. My face must have lit up. To this DAY, I've never seen that many french fries at one time. These people EMPTIED the stockroom to make this thing. Laughter abounds. A lesson learned...
And somewhere, a lost french fry rests silently beneath the seat of an '88 Ford Taurus...
AWESOME VID!
You'd have been better off paying for the small portion.
Loved that story.
this is wholesome
Great story Tom
@Y Its not in the asking. It's in the way of asking. No Jedi mind tricks though. won't work. Yoda it, you must and ask for why, you did?
For all my sales people out there: “Rejection” doesn’t become rejection once you’ve gotten over that fear. It turns from an emotional reaction to a logical pathway to success. Finding the true root of the concern, nothing to do with you personally.
This is my absolute favorite TED talk. Hilarious and deep on so many levels. Thank you!!
This was a very inspirational and entertaining tedtalk video. I love his story and insights about rejection; the things that he did in order to achieve what he wanted was truly adorable. I could watch this over and over without getting bored.
What an inspiring talk. Defo one of my favourites. His delivery, content, and above all poignant message.
"Never reject yourself before they reject you"
- Me 2021
Never gonna give you up
- Rick Astley
No offense but it is kind of dumb because it mean you can reject yourself after the first rejection, lol.
Rejection is protection
"If they reject you, move them down on the food pyramid."
- Me, 2022
pretentious much?
-Me 2022
Man this was so brilliant! Loved hearing your journey and what you learned along the way. 10/10 delivery as well, great lesson, thank you for sharing!
Thank you for posting this! This sparked something in me to challenge myself when it comes to rejection because I too cannot take rejection lol you've sparked an idea in me, so thank you!
This was a very interesting and eye-opening video for me. I often fear rejection and it fuels my self-doubt which leads to missed opportunities. I think I should try 100 days of rejection as well, it could be really beneficial for me.
Today, there was a function in our college ....and all of students just taking part in like speech and songs and many other things.....so I decided to take part in that function.....I prepared a poetry and went there .....I was sooo excited.....I got rejected ......by every single person one after another..... including my classmates and I was just acting like....ohh .. wow .....it doesn't matter and that ....but it was affecting me in all the languages......than I came backinto my room in the the middle of function and slept for 9 straight hours......just to fade that whole freakin feeling .....idk how to name it but it was terrible than.....I woke up....I opened youtube and I clicked on this videoooo.......and now I'm feeling better ...... thanks
I like how he turned a serious matter in life into humor
well it is stand up comedy
That’s how many comedians work.
Necessary public speech skills in order to attract the audience's attention.
Wow, I've never stood up to rejection that way. Something so common sense yet I always dodged it.. Learnt a great lesson today. Many thanks 😊😊😊
This is so great! Revisiting this after a few years and taking away new lessons. I love how he identified a defining moment for him as a child and then worked to heal that child. Rejection therapy reminds me of the bee venom immunotherapy I've been wanting to do. And as for technology to help people overcome rejection... I'm thinking about how we can use VR to simulate situations of us getting rejected so that we feel better being rejected by real people. So much to think about.
This was good Jia, I have suffered from rejection plenty of times and I still do. It does make me stronger and able to accept rejection much more.
I legit needed this! So great of you to bring such subjects to us. ✨
if burger refill becomes a thing, it's because of this guy
@Beede Bawng On another note, I’d like a burger refill, please
@Beede Bawng I laughed way too hard at this comment
If burger refill becomes a thing, consider it the permanent demise of the western world.
He belongs in da history books
Man I'd have loved a five guys refill. But then I'd have to play even more soccer to stay in shape
This is absolutely one of the best talks I've listened to. Thanks, man
This turned out to one of the most inspiring Ted talks I've ever listened to. Not sure how I missed watching this earlier.
Uau! Amei essa palestra. Exemplo a ser seguido. Parabéns!!
My God this is amazing, I had and still have fear of rejection. It was really a real-life change when we aware of ti and started to overcome it. Thank you for sharing you are so inspiring.
This guy should totally start a career of stand-up comedy! He's got a natural and effortless sense of humor around him
This comedy is the result of hardwork. He obviously shouldn't start a career of stand-up comedy
@Andy Reiteru surely seem to ve a lot of charm just looking at your comment . What went so wrong with your upbringing ? I feel sad for u my friend .
@Andy Reiter Would you find that to be too weird?
(Come on guys, haven't you learnt anything from the video?)
This is a different atmosphere. In a place where he's supposed to be funny, he get eaten alive.
@Disavowed Human Being I thought that was American styles?
English is more towards cynical and mocking others
One of the best and simplest and practical and satisfying TED talk I ever watched ❤️❤️Thank you man!!
He reminded me of something… actually the whole world craves for inspiration all the time! Only when they don’t get inspired for too long that people forgot about possibilities sometimes. By stretching them it helps them. By receiving the rejections from them it stretches ourselves. 👍🏻
What an amazing presentation! After this I actually asked my crush out, just asking myself „why not?“. Not exactly hoping for a rejection though, haha. Wish me luck! :)
How did it go?
This Ted Talk just became my favorite one! Wow a big lesson, I feel inspired now to not run when rejection happens. Thanks! Love it
wow I just asked a girl out she turned me down and this was the first video in my suggestion feed. thanks TheXvid.
Same Mr. Chicken
@Mr. Chicken for real?! Good for you if true😀👍
@Mr. Chicken who performed the ceremony between you and your dominant hand?
Let a lady ask you out bro. Then you take the wheel.
@Sania Ghosh I'm married now so... Yeah I'd say so
Best tedX I’ve watched so far. He is exactly right. How we approach every challenge and obstacle in life is also about attitude on how we handle these rejections .
Face your fears and live on. Great talk Jia!
One of the best! I didn't expect his humor or the experience. Loved it.
Great talk! Facing rejection is difficult and your story is inspiring.
Jia: Can I do a Ted talk about being rejected?
Ted: Sure thing bro
Jia: (wtf dude you're supposed to say no)
Oh yeah …
Ted:- SURE
Jia:- But why?
😂😂😂
XD his rejection was supposed to be rejected
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA my god. Can't tap the like button enough
So inspirational. Many people struggle with this. Thank you Jia Jiang for spreading the knowledge. :)
sometimes I come here and watch it again when I got rejected from interviews... this is the one of funniest ted talks I have ever seen. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Just got the 3 pack of the game(: excited to have this extra push to help me with my anxiety and agoraphobia, I'd love to be out in the world without caring if people think I'm crazy, or if they're out to get me.
Bravo, Mister Ja! What a wonderful and enlightened speech, I am so touched and inspired now to do all the scary things in my life♥️👍🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
After her graduation ceremony at school, my daughter wanted to have a nice dinner at a famous restaurant. When we walked in, the waiter told us that the restaurant was fully book and asked us to come back the nextday and made a reservation first.
We walked out of the door . Then I remembered something. I walked in again and asked the waiter while pointing at a reserved table : ‘when are the guests supposed to show up?’ In one hour.
So i gave him an offer : if he can prepare the food in 15 minutes, we would dine and got out of there in 30 minutes. He thought for a minute and we had our dinner there.
On the way out my wife asked me how I managed to do that. Without turning my head, I said : ‘I watched this stupid video by a guy named Jia on TheXvid and gave it a shot...........’
He’s using stupid as a idiom guys, sheesh lol
well done :)
@redmanticore 😂😂 The realistic version
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So I gave him an offer: if he can prepare the food.."
the receptionist answered: what are you on about? only reservations accepted. kindly leave our premises, sir.
my daughter replied: you are embarrassing me, dad, what are you doing...? let's just go...
I started vocally arguing with the receptionist, then fighting with him, getting arrested, and ruined our daughter´s big day.
@Selena Ramoutar He meant it jokingly
Wow, so smart, so well spoken. And most of all so courageous .
His way of providing a speech is so relatable and down to earth and easy for the crowd to relate and engage. Love his quality.
Beautiful talk! It’s obvious that he is a good man and he truly deserves the acclaim! Keep rocking Jia Jiang!
Wish I clicked on this sooner! Learnt something valuable and also got a few laughs. Definitely one of my favorites now, thanks Jia!✨
My teacher once told me something that really helped. She said don't be scared to ask, all someone can do is say "no", they can't do anything worse than that. I don't know why it really had an impact on me.
@Ultimate Machine facts 💯
Depends what you're asking... Could be way worse than No
"I thought you were a Knight in shining armor, but it turns out you're just a loser in tinfoil" - Someone on Twitter getting rejected
@Ultimate Machine Maybe white women, but as a black woman, it's completely different. We all live very different lives. Women in America, even white women do not have it easy. Try being a woman for one day smh. It's not an easy life but I am proud to be a woman. Not trying to argue with you, just speaking from my personal experience.
@Gennie's view Let him know that I referred to you!
@Gennie's view *Harvey Barrett Fx*
@Gennie's view kindly reach out to Harvey Barrett FX, he will be of greater help to you
@Gennie's view He is very popular among brokers and I must say he is an outstanding broker too, I saw him once on Chris Hogan channel and contacted him shortly after, investing in forex has been very profitable ever since.
My favorite TED Talk of all time! Here's to light at the end of the dark tunnel of rejection! 🥂
Beautifully shared...very valuable insight on such an important fear we all share 🙏
Such a great talk and presentation, I was engaged the entire time
When I was 13, there was some corruption in a public speaking competition in my school. Up until that day I was always an ace on stage. Even on that day I remember giving my absolute best performance and yet my award was sabotaged. It was pre-planned but a kid wouldn't understand that kind of stuff. I suffered the biggest shock and thought all those years of me winning several titles and awards and compliments were all a lie and that I was actually no-good. I didn't even get placed a runner up. I was absolutely devastated.
I didn't know that this now 26 year old beautiful and successful woman still saw herself in such a terrible light of a failure because of that incident 13 years ag0o and my fear of rejection is REAL too. Jee, thank you for this TED talk. It reminded me of that day and the deep seated trauma I had suffered and really opened my eyes. I'm never gonna repeat that pattern in my life. I'm breaking free now.
P.S. Funny that he mentioned Martin Luther King jr. The speech that I gave on that day was actually his legendary speech - Dream. I still remember it clear as day. If anyone of you had been there, watching me, you'd have known the power my words held. It had moved people to tears; including myself as I spoke the last 2 lines. I didn't lose because I wasn't good enough, that day. I lost because I thought I did.
I wanted to be an entrepreneur and experienced rejection too. Your story brought tears to my eyes.
This was the best Ted Talk I think I have ever seen. Wow! This guys was so real, genuine and relatable.
I am not crying, you are...
This came in such a perfect time after being rejected so many times now
This was really enlightening as someone who also struggles with the fear of rejection.
This is probably one of the most life-changing Ted Talks I've seen (and I've watched a lot of them).
one of the best Ted talks for sure, what an inspiring man, thanks a lot!
Jia, this is the absolute truth. Thank you for sharing your incredible story.
Rejected Continuously in 28 interviews....just to be a Software Developer in 29th Interview..Happy that I didn't Give Up...
@whatthefuckor idk where you're from, but the company I currently work for is based in Toulouse, France. And we only speak french at work.
@Pierre Miniggio that’s what I’ve heard as well! Is your company hiring for software engineers and can I get a referral from you?
@Joshua Garcia couldn't agree more, bro - there is a reason the strong survive and the weak-minded fail. it's the same in the corporate world as it is in nature nd thatsa just how it is - adapt, or take yourself out of the game.
Damn that's dedication
@Versus thanks for the information. Need to learn algorithms...
Wow. This is just what I need at this juncture of my life. Thank you for the superb and inspiring talk.
There are hundreds of amazing talks in TED, I don't doubt. But this one really touches something in my soul.
I love how when the audience laughs he doesn't skip a beat and it doesn't seem to inflate his ego, genuine dude 😚
Amazing speech. So funny and genuine. 🙌
I've said for years that the more formal education people have, the more it is reinforced to avoid failure, when in fact failure is a necessary part of success. Jia Jiang you did the best job of illustrating this that I have ever seen! Great talk.
@Xinwei Li doctors lose patients all the time, Li. Medical errors kill ~50,000 to ~100,000 patients in the United States alone. you missed my point entirely. if you want to be a top cardiologist, oncologist or brain surgeon, you are GOING TO LOSE PATIENTS. you're not God. but these "failures" are essential to creating the very best doctors. to be the best, you have to take on the most challenging cases, and in these hospitals, patients die.
@R Johnson my interpretation is that he believes those who followed the traditional academic route are more likely to have a fear of failure. This is because the path is already there for us and we just have to follow it. We get anxious and scare when we stray from that path. This is what I think he meant
@Mr. ♟️ that's exactly what he meant, Luigi. "the more formal education people have, the more it is reinforced to avoid failure"
what is more "formal" than the doctors, attorneys, engineers from the top-ranked universities in the US who make the highest grades and essentially do NOT go on to "fail" but achieve great success (to your point)?
@R Johnson i don't think that's what he meant by failure avoidance.
awesome talk, world class content and presentation... well done Sir :)
someone out there must have a parent who has continued pushing through in the face of rejection and you never really put much into it while growing up. Now it's time to appreciate your parent.
HAD to clap at the end of his presentation. THAT was Inspirational!
What a great talk and messages. Love this.
He seems so genuinely happy with his life now, teaching about rejection and social change. I rarely see that much fulfilment on someone's face, when he talked about the book and teaching near the end.
his grandma is happy that he's finally a teacher after all :D
Sami Aziz agree. He seems so genuinely happy with his life.
I couldn't believe it was such a short and informative speech...Loved every second of it
I love it. It's very inspiring. ❤️
I thoroughly enjoyed this. Wow. Beautiful lesson.
He's awesome. Period. I've learned and laugh so much from this, THANK U !!!
Read his book some years ago. Loved it. What stood out was within the first 5-10 mins, I realized that Jia and I had the same idea of gamifying promises made between friends and family. Pretty neat stuff.
My motto (when I had to knock on the door and speak to strangers prospecting with business owners) was; No one can reject you, they can only reject what they think you represent in their minds.
just finished watching, what Jia Jiang shared was truly wonderful, inspiring & motivating. keep up good work Jia Jiang!!! I am going ask for burger refill next time :-)
Such a lovely guy! Heart touching ❤️
I've watched this so many times and still laugh, it never gets old. This is the TED Talk that turned my life around, and trust me when I say I've watched too many to count. For a few years now, I have "practiced" almost every day -even with really small attempts at getting rejected- and it really changed my life. Better career, better entourage, a loooot of money saved and opportunities created.. I feel so grateful that I once stumbled upon this video and encourage y'all to do the same !!
What did you start to do so your life changed?
Stllbn girrrrl good for you! Cheers to the women who find their strength in this world! Now light the path for others, were all meant to learn and teach 🙏
@TheMarioMen1 boy you need some water
Stllbn damn you’re stunning how are you even suffering from rejection? I’d never reject ya 😉
Stllbn emm 🤔
In my personal experience, I've often just "asked" for things doing all the things this guy tells you to do, and it mostly didn't work. On the contrary, I find that if you are in a position where you "have" to ask (meaning, you are NOT in a position of power/control over things), then the answer is always no. Of course, I wasn't asking for silly things like burger refills or Olympic shaped donuts. Maybe when you ask weird things like that it has a more likely chance to work.
Love this. Thanks for inspiring us.
I LOVED this! Such a genuine and funny TedTalk.